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Is anybody else having people from their past randomly come back and apologize?

A friend recently called me and apologized for something she did to me when we were younger, and she said she feels like she’s facing her karma now.

And it had me thinking… do people eventually regret hurting Cancers? Like do they realize later that we really didn’t deserve that? 😭

Or is something in the air right now? A moon phase thing? Because it feels like the universe is making people spin the block and confess.

Have y’all had anybody who did you wrong, come back and apologize lately? Because this feels very “the past is knocking at the door” type energy.

Hello everyone, I just wanted to ask as a leo myself.. what would most likely happen if I broke no contact with a cancer? it's almost 10 months of us in no contact and I just wanna check in on how she's doing cuz I haven't seen any updates on her social media. To give y'all some info on how we ended, to me it feels unfinished because she never gave me a clear message that we were done or anything like that, she just pulled away emotionally first. Ofc a leo not feeling being appreciated or valued would pull away and that's what I did and she just let me when I wanted to be held.. But it wasn't a clean no contact situation, we were on and off for a long time and during our last convo I was just fed up and that's how our last contact went. Can y'all let me know what are your insights? or is it even a good idea to reach out lol

Title, I [37m, Cancer] have been in several unsuccessful relationships and the most recent has me feeling really burned out and drained.

I've never dated another Cancer though, wondering if maybe that would be refreshing.

I’m curious.

Hi im a pisces man that has been dating a cancer women for about a month and a half. Everything was like a fairytale. Every morning calling eachother before work telling eachother goodmorning with a picture. Everything was PERFECT! We even told eachother we are soulmates and talking about moving in together,even having kids together. In such short time belive it or not we told eachother we love one another. So what happened was that I breached her trust because my sister in law (my brothers wife) we have a good relationship and wanted to know about how my relationship was going. She asked for a picture of us which I sent her. She said aww you guys look soo good and cute together. That she looks soo wholesome.She than made a comment about her looking innocent and not like a freak in bed. (I know i dont know why she even cares to know that) and me like an idiot responded to her saying oh no we have great chemistry in bed and that shes really good in bed. So my gf ended up seeing those messages. She broke up with me telling me that I broke her trust. I took accountability and told her im soo sorry that I should have never spoke about out privacy and that it would never happen again. So we were going back and forth messaging. (Me ofcourse trying to win her back and apologize and admit my faults) she told me why did i ruin everything??? all the plans we had. she said she was hurting alot.she than began to close off to the point where she told me to stop contacting her or she would block me. So I gave her the space she asked for. So at this point im not blocked and 35 hours go by and me still no contact. She than reached out to me through text telling to the erase the picture of us on my profile. But i was busy and wasnt able to look at the message for about 1 hr. So when i look i see that she blocked me. So 1 hr passes by and she calls me. We spoke for about 40 minutes (she was seeing me on video call) she admitted to me that monday morning (this past monday 2 days ago) that on her way to work her mind was so cloudy of thinking about me that she almost crashed. She also complimented the flowers i sent to her house. Like in a really soothing voice saying that she really liked them. She let me talk the conversation wasnt rushed,she wasnt looking to hang up. she also mentioned that we could possibly meet up for coffee soon.so during that call my phone had died and I was about to get out of work. So when I get home I charge my phone and than I call her which she didnt answer. Than I sent her a video message of me telling her hey my phone died I had to go to buy a new charger and to call me. She didnt call me back but she text me back. She hit me with " oh im sorry to hear thag about your charger but I hope everything goes well with you and that i hope you could heal but ALONE and she would do the same thing. And me like an idiot I panicked and told her to call me which she didnt so I ended up calling her which she didnt answer.so than I ended up texting her telling her that I would be waiting for her and praying to God to bring her back to me.Than I sent her a Bible verse about forgiveness proverbs 17:9 than she sent me a twxt saying that was a very nice verse and that she forgives me and doesnt hold a grudge with me and wants me to be better everyday. But than she sent me Bible verse which is proverbs 17:10 which is about learning from your mistakes. After that she blocked me. What do you guys think based on everything? Did i push her away for diving straight in again trying to get back together? Would she give me another chance? Did I lose her forever?⁹

EMOTIONAL DISTANCE CHECKLIST

For CAPRICORN ♑

• Emotionally Functional: Shows up, but feels efficient.
• Less Reassurance/Vulnerability: Lacks softness.
• Love Feels Efficient: Practical, not intimate.

Capricorn ... Love feels efficient. They show up, but the vulnerability is gone.

Hi! I’m a July Cancer. I consistently have attracted Libra men romantically, but the flame burns super bright and burns half as long. I’m emotionally intense, intelligent, caring, kind and very considerate. I’m a pretty attractive girl, so I have options.. but once I really like someone i’m like let’s trade skin for a day sort of deal lol. I notice that i over invest myself in the talking stage too soon, and this is something i consistently find myself doing with libra men. By the way, it’s not like this is one or two libra men I’ve dated… the last five men I have talked to have been libras, which is crazy to me. Cancer and Libra are drawn to eachother physically and it is magnetic, until things get real is what I’ve realized.

A few things that i’ve observed about them :

1. A lot of libra men are very flirty, charming and take really good care of themselves. They tend to sometimes present in some feminine ways as well and are comfortable with their masculinity.

They are romantic and a lot of romance for them is mystery and fantasy based. They will say things they dont mean in the beginning because of that fantasy.

2.

1. I wouldn’t say it is love bombing, but it feels similar to that. And then when things start feeling real and you start actually addressing things, they will start to pull back and try to be more logical… even though they just spent the last four days texting you about what the names of your kids would be ( didn’t happen, just hypothetical lol )

3. I feel I kept confusing their openness and ability to talk to anyone as them caring. A lot of libra men are genuinely just open and down for the experience with anyone, and also the people pleaser in them just makes them come across as nice. Im different than this. I’m very intentional about who I give my time to, and if i’m texting you consistently from the jump.. it’s because I think it’s going somewhere down the line. I either care or i don’t at all. However, what I find is this causes a clash too soon. I’m mistaking their opennness to chat and make others comfortable as a sign that I can open up and say anything. This is not true, and I don’t want to overshare too soon during a talking stage.

All in all, i’m just asking how to do better this time and just take things slower as a cancer. I think libra men tend to want to move a lot slower than we do, and thats where I have butt heads with them in the past. I need to just see things for what they are in the beginning and not be so locked into someone lol

Hello need some advice from some fellow cancers. Recently got into a fight with my partner. He’s been distant often ignoring my messages. We are long distance, I’ve been complaining to him that he just doesn’t put in the effort in anymore, he swears up and down he’s gonna do something sweet for me like a romantic gesture kinda and he never does it. He blames it on his poor memory but I think that’s bullshit because if he really wanted to he would at least write it down somewhere to remember. He always asks me what he should do or what I wanna do every single time and honestly I’m tired of playing relationship tutor trying to guide him on how to be a man. Should I just keep trying or just let him go.

Or its the other way around 😅
Do you have one?

I’m a female cancer who has the hardest time making friends. I’m really shy when I meet new people and don’t want to say anything to offend anyone so mostly I just don’t say anything until I feel comfortable enough..

I’m terrified of bullies and mean girls, even though I’m an adult. I don’t know how to fix it 😢

Venus entered Cancer yesterday, and if you've noticed someone specific getting louder in your thoughts, that's not just sentiment. It's the shift. Cancer is where Venus stops performing and starts the real need, your actual want when nobody's watching. Its not in a demanding way.

Libra Venus wants to be chosen. Taurus Venus wants stability. Cancer Venus wants to feel like home to someone, and wants someone to feel like home to them. This is why the shift into Cancer often brings up a very specific kind of longing. Its not excitement or attraction. Its more like something quiet and calm. The feeling of wanting to be somewhere safe with someone specific.

That feeling will be more intense over the next few weeks. The person it surfaces, whether you're in contact with them or not, whether the situation is simple or complicated, tells you something real about what you're actually looking for. Venus in Cancer acts like a mirror for your emotional needs. It shows you who feels safe, who feels familiar, and what kind of softness you keep craving when nobody's watching.

Venus in Cancer isn't about who impresses you. It's about who you'd call if something actually went wrong.

This transit lasts until mid-June. The themes it activates are consistent: who you want consistency from, what makes you feel genuinely cared for versus what you accept because it's available, and whether the softness you show in private matches the story you tell about what you want. Cancer Venus doesn't hide and it makes the real thing harder to ignore.

What love assumption is Gemini season already messing with?

Maybe you thought you were over someone. Maybe you thought you knew what you wanted. Maybe one text changed the whole mood.

Hiya!

Anyone here with similar placements? How ya'll doing? 😊

I was also born on Monday (moon day!) and my moon and sun are in conjuction/cazimi, the moon energy is crazy sometimes!

I'm a Capricorn Sun but never could relate to anything about my Sun sign. I'm super sensitive, emotional, and I don't care about "ambition" or "success". If anything I'm very lazy (just being honest lol). So I wonder if the reason I feel so much less like a Capricorn is because of my Cancer Rising? I'm also a Sagittarius Moon, but I hate travel or adventure. I'd rather just be comfortable at home

What are the main traits of Cancer Risings? How do you spot one or what gives them away? I just wonder what it says about me

Just wanted to say love you guys a ton.

Been going through a tough time in my personal life lately and everyone here has a ton of support and positivity.

I had some good news today and some things are happening for the better, new job, new prospects, also got some financial relief.

Other signs tear each other down but we do it best with supporting each other!

Crab love 🦀

Hello everyone, I never understood this about myself. I'm not a very affectionate person with other people. Yes, with animals and books. 😅

I've never had a boyfriend or even a crush. People never approach me; I've even been told they're afraid to talk to me because of my "grumpy" face.

Although I don't give hugs and kisses, I would like to receive them.

Is there anything in the data below that demonstrates why am I like this?

Ascendant ↑ Sagittarius [1]

Sun ☉ Cancer [8]

Moon ☾ Taurus [6]

Mercury ☿ Leo [9]

Venus ♀ Gemini [6]

Mars ♂ Cancer [8]

Jupiter ♃ Aquarius [3]

Saturn ♄ Scorpio [12]

Uranus ⛢ Sagittarius [1]

Neptune ♆ Capricorn [1]

Pluto ♇ Scorpio [11]

June and July Cancers feel the same to me, but I've seen a few differences in my personal experience. We all have different Natal Charts! Have you been with either of the two?

I am a June Cancer and my birthday is the 21st of June!

And how is it going?