Im a Capricorn Man and I’m a big fan of cancer women. Best relationship of my life was with a Cancer woman. What are hobbies and activities you guys enjoy doing where I could meet more of yall?

Hi all, I’m a lurker lol But I have been dating a cancer man for a little while now and I’m a Virgo. Im a single mom and he has never been married or had kids. He jumped in with both feet, met me where I am, and in the process completely changed my entire world that I so carefully crafted to protect my heart. I swear this man (and all you cancers) are fictional. In the best way. The amount of stability, emotional maturity, safety, and vulnerability offered is unmatched. I’m so grateful to have found him and things are natural and easy. I know so many of you have been burned and scarred by virgos so I apologize on behalf of my sign, but some of us are healing/healed and appreciate what we have in you and work to make sure we reciprocate in kind. 🖤

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I am a Sagittarius Sun & Rising as well as Libra moon, I don’t know his signs but I just now he is a Cancer Sun. I’ve been dating him for almost a year now. I’m Asian and he is European. At the moment, we are having some sort of problems, actually just him with me. He is a very emotional man, likes philosophy and a man who knows what he wants. Lately, he’s been saying that inside him he feels unhappy and unfulfilled, and that looking at me does not inspire him. And I didn’t know this (he tells me only when we’re almost breaking up), and I feel like I have to be a certain someone for him to like me or there’s a version of me in his head that I’m not becoming and it frustrates him, and now he thinks it’s a compatibility issue. However on my end, I felt nothing but loved. He is extremely loyal and attentive to my needs and is very sweet. Yes, there are moments when I wished he could be more (for example, we could be more adventurous together or go out more), but these are things I understand and I feel like he is still working on himself, so they don’t bother me as much. Now I feel like I’ve been under his microscope and he constantly feels the need to check my progress with me completely unaware. I just felt like it was unfair, I am an open person, he could have told me these things sooner not only when he feels like giving up. Is there a way we could navigate through this? (Sorry i dont know much about signs but maybe it can help)

So my Cancer ex-girlfriend broke it off with me about three weeks ago and wanted to remain friends. We hung out last Saturday for most of the day doing some shopping and lunch. During lunch and shopping she dropped some subtle hints testing to see if I wanted her around as a friend or romantically, but I didn't really bite just responded with humour. Next morning she wakes up and sends a text to me thanking me for shopping and lunch and giving me details of her evening as she was dealing with a cold. We texted back and forth and then it abruptly ended after I responded humorously again about going on a walk together like old times. Haven't heard from her since.

Has she gone back in her shell because I didn't respond the way she hoped or because she is afraid of losing me or does she really regret breaking up with me?

EMOTIONAL DISTANCE CHECKLIST

For CAPRICORN ♑

• Emotionally Functional: Shows up, but feels efficient.
• Less Reassurance/Vulnerability: Lacks softness.
• Love Feels Efficient: Practical, not intimate.

Capricorn ... Love feels efficient. They show up, but the vulnerability is gone.

Which zodiac signs in men do you women usually have great chemistry with, especially if you notice the same signs repeatedly?

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Having a cancer sun, aquarius moon, scorpio rising paired with leo venus/mercury makes it feel kinda hard to find love because it’s like so much polarity within one person 😭 curious to know what other big 3 placements have felt like a perfect romantic match for yours???

My mom is not only a cancer sun, but also cancer mercury and mars. She’s Virgo moon. From my experience, cancer women are on either extreme ends of the nurturing stick, no in between. They’re either incredibly nurturing to the point it’s almost overbearing sometimes (still love those cancer women to death!) OR they’re incredibly cold and very detached (like my mother). My mother is anything BUT nurturing. She never wants to do anything with me. Go on a walk? Nope. Go get our nails done? Nope. Go to an amusement park? Nope. Go to the apple orchard? Nope. Go to the library with me? Nope. I’m in my mid twenties now but even as a teen she was like this. She never gave AF about me. When I had medical issues in high school, she didn’t educate me on the importance of protein, iron, other vitamins/mineral consumption for optimal health. She didn’t care that I passed out at school. She just complained to my dad and said she’s “too busy” to deal with me. She also never picks me up from the airport that’s only 35 min drive away. She makes my Capricorn dad come get me (I’m very thankful for him). I feel like I grew up with an emotionally absent mother which is so shocking because cancer dominant charts are typically incredibly nurturing to their daughters. Anyone else experience this???

So my coworker and I have been friendly for 3 years since we started working together. We were in different departments up until April of this year and I was in a relationship this whole time until the beginning of September. I am born and raised in my small town and he moved here around 4 years ago and works constantly so hasn’t made a lot of friends (we are blue collar industry workers so work a LOT of hours). We started talking a lot more over text since we started working in the same department and have become close. I always sensed a flirty vibe from him. Some of the things he has texted me has definitely been flirting.. anyways the past couple weeks since I have been single I started to develop a crush on him and flirted back a bit. A couple days ago I told him straight up since I don’t like games and communication is important to me that I started to develop a crush and he said that he wasn’t looking for anything in that way. And he said that he was thinking that it was nice to finally have a friend in this town that he trusts and can talk to when he does actually talk. I said that was fine and I’m okay being his friend. I guess I’m just wondering if this is normal for a Scorpio to just switch like that or if it’s just a man thing? Or is he hiding his feelings because he doesn’t want to ruin the friendship? Any thoughts or advice?

Hi, I’m a July cancer sun and moon. My almost 2 years relationship with this June cancer man ended 4 months ago.. I was the one dumped.

Since then I’ve been doing a lot of self reflection, inner child work and just loads of healing. We’ve been in NC since June and I thought I was doing okay but last few weeks have been unbearably hard. Last few days he’s also been in my dreams. I can’t tell if this is just part of the healing/grieving process or something more. I want to check up on him and if he’s okay, but probably not the right choice.

He’s not someone who’s spiritual or believes too much in all the astrology talk. I do wonder if he’s also going through it as I am. Idk We did have a lot of for each other ( I still do). I want to move on and I’ve been trying so hard but it’s been hard ahh.

Any other cancers going through something similar? 😢

There’s this cancer woman in my friend group of 5 (we’re all 20 years old) we all decided to ride bikes but we had assumed her and I had to share a bike (one that has a small seat on the back,more like metal seat) bc there wasn’t anymore.
Then we found another bike and I said “oh I’ll take that bike so we don’t have to share one and you can use this one” and she said, “no it’s okay we can share”.
And before the hangout, at work, we were talking about all of us bringing snacks…and she ended up bringing some of my favorite snacks mainly.
This is our first time hanging out outside of work and her and I barely talk at work.
So is this any sign of her liking me? Or am I just overlooking it?