random question inspired by mariah the scientist and young thug’s beef 😂

i remember hearing that kylans mom was in her ear telling her to distance herself from amayah because she wanted “clout”

just for amayah to surpass her anyways 😂 she might not have 1M but her engagement is way better, her management represents her well, she’s been in skims campaigns, miami swim week, now urban outfitters + more…and she wrote a book! left zeta with class and still had friends at the end of college

lol at them. i could see amayah thriving in nyc more than kylan. same with the ex roommates. and they could actually afford it without going into debt.

i’m so interested to see if they’re really about to pull off this “nyc” move. they kept bragging about how much money this is going to cost and i’m just wondering… who is paying/working with them? how is kylan making thousands a month with her fake engagement & bot followers?

not even two years ago they were busted having all fakes and kylan was dressed in fake LV, gucci, and chanel for the majority of her “content creation career” like it was so painfully obvious before they even got exposed.

this family is so obsessed with trying to prove the “haters” wrong… why do i see them either going into debt for nyc to prove things to everyone or straight up lie and live out of an airbnb for a month or something, then claim an emergency which sends them home.

i simply don’t believe they got it like that. maybe during the peak of bama rush but kylans been pretty irrelevant since the roommate drama and lowkey fell off after the amayah drama

i bet if we pressed them in the comments they’ll say something stupid like “we sold them to our farmer friend”

genuine question

i wanna spin back on my roster bc i hate my bf rn but they all suck 😭 maybe ive grown so much because reaching out to them doesn’t even feel entertaining anymore, they all give me the ick now.

can anyone relate

genuinely asking. i’m a cancer sun. then they can never look at their wrongs because they think they’re so perfect, and manipulate you when you voice a need or concern.

seriously considering breaking up with this dude

you want extreme loyalty yet you get a girls ig on a cruise right after you spoiled me for valentine’s day, and i don’t find out until a year later, snooping.

AND they’re in one sided competition with you 😂

gonna stand on business but still even though i’m probably missing a version that no longer exists but wow the fantasy was electric. magnetic. i felt so seen, more than i ever have with anyone else. he always said the best compliments that were so particular as if he studied me. he showed affection and didn’t care who was around. would literally make out with me at the metro infront of strangers. we met eachother travelling through colombia and even though we’re from two different countries, i saw him about 3 times total during the 3.5 years of knowing him. i wish he just wasn’t like this and we could still be in contact. i ghosted him when he least expected it and still feel confused and mourning the connection. that was during winter 2024. i feel so bad for that.

sometimes i want to reach out but for the first time i walked away with my dignity. i didn’t want him to ever think i can’t pull and always get rejected so i ran back to him.

never insulted him or went “crazy” EVER during our connection (situationship, if you will) but just never talked to him again. and then became untraceable.

i know it would be so stupid to pop up and be like hey he would think im a dummy and feel an ego boost which i refuse to ever give him again after how badly i was treated

but dang it hurts

sad to admit that im also in a relationship with my longterm first love and feel guilty ab having these feelings

second time the fire dept has pulled up right after i finished gardening. in the last week. there’s an ongoing banging noise that’s super annoying which i wrote my neighbor a friendly note about it. now i’m getting the vibe they’re not cool with thc. but i live in a legalized city where it’s completely fine to smoke in private.

to be fair i don’t do it in the building but on the balcony. just feeling really awkward and embarrassed…

and the fire dept keeps showing up swat deep rustling with my door and it’s lowkey traumatic and killing the vibe

tldr; neighbor bangs on my ceiling non stop after i garden outside and called the fire dept twice in a week. am i in the wrong if i live in a legal city

i’ve been with my capricorn for 7 years. (26m, 27f)

for the most part, things are great. we’re always goofy together, we have great conversations, the chemistry is there…

but lately we’ve been bumping heads. nearly every week and lately every other day. i don’t doubt he loves me and i love him. but it’s starting to feel like love isn’t enough. we are also long distance, he lives 6hrs away, but it hasn’t always been like this, as we met in college.

i know communication can be a struggle for our signs. i’m really trying my best to understand him. but it’s starting to feel like it doesn’t matter, nothing feels enough. i try to express my needs calmly, he’s instantly on the defense with me. i don’t even have the energy to argue and constantly tell him, “im on the same team, let’s just talk about it” but he interjects when i say anything he doesn’t like, and raises his voice when im keeping my cool.

it’s starting to make me feel lost on what i should do with this. as i mentioned, i really love him and lthe pain is really taking a toll on me. it just feels like our communication doesn’t work. he spoils me, but i hate that he doesn’t compliment me much, unless i say something first about him, then he’s like “no you” or i call him handsome and he’s like “you’re beautiful” … i just want him to naturally think and say that. be attentive and tell me when i look good.

i just turned 27 and i really had high goals to stop this feud that’s been happening since march. to be fair, a lot of our arguments were frequent as i was trying to find the best medication combo (i have bipolar) so i wasn’t exactly regulated. but i’ve recently reached the therapeutic dose and im starting to feel better! but it just feels like we argue all the time. the cancer in me wants to try try try and never give up. but i hate that i’m feeling confused on what to do. i really love him and i know he loves me too. i’ve always visualized him being my husband, the father of my kids, i want everything with him.

but i guess im wondering if anyone who’s dated/dating/married to a cancer can speak to their dynamic and the way they’ve made it work, if they have.

or should i just toss this and move on?

it’s hard as there’s just so much love between us, but i always feel like my needs aren’t understood completely or it turns into an argument about “how i’ve hurt his feelings” even though it’s not connected at all. he also tends to say we’re good after we talk through some conversations, id ask if he’s sure and he’s like, yes… but then later on it gets thrown in my face as an argument and makes me feel weird because it just feels like i can’t do anything right.

idk im starting to feel crazy.

i’ve been with my capricorn for 7 years. (26m, 27f)

for the most part, things are great. we’re always goofy together, we have great conversations, the chemistry is there…

but lately we’ve been bumping heads. nearly every week and lately every other day. i don’t doubt he loves me and i love him. but it’s starting to feel like love isn’t enough. we are also long distance, he lives 6hrs away, but it hasn’t always been like this, as we met in college.

i know communication can be a struggle for our signs. i’m really trying my best to understand him. but it’s starting to feel like it doesn’t matter, nothing feels enough. i try to express my needs calmly, he’s instantly on the defense with me. i don’t even have the energy to argue and constantly tell him, “im on the same team, let’s just talk about it” but he interjects when i say anything he doesn’t like, and raises his voice when im keeping my cool.

it’s starting to make me feel lost on what i should do with this. as i mentioned, i really love him and lthe pain is really taking a toll on me. it just feels like our communication doesn’t work. he spoils me, but i hate that he doesn’t compliment me much, unless i say something first about him, then he’s like “no you” or i call him handsome and he’s like “you’re beautiful” … i just want him to naturally think and say that. be attentive and tell me when i look good.

i just turned 27 and i really had high goals to stop this feud that’s been happening since march. to be fair, a lot of our arguments were frequent as i was trying to find the best medication combo (i have bipolar) so i wasn’t exactly regulated. but i’ve recently reached the therapeutic dose and im starting to feel better! but it just feels like we argue all the time. the cancer in me wants to try try try and never give up. but i hate that i’m feeling confused on what to do. i really love him and i know he loves me too. i’ve always visualized him being my husband, the father of my kids, i want everything with him.

but i guess im wondering if anyone who’s dated/dating/married to a capricorn can speak to their dynamic and the way they’ve made it work, if they have.

or should i just toss this and move on?

it’s hard as there’s just so much love between us, but i always feel like my needs aren’t understood completely or it turns into an argument about “how i’ve hurt his feelings” even though it’s not connected at all. he also tends to say we’re good after we talk through some conversations, id ask if he’s sure and he’s like, yes… but then later on it gets thrown in my face as an argument and makes me feel weird because it just feels like i can’t do anything right.

idk im starting to feel crazy.

My boyfriend (26M) and I have been together on and off since we were 19. We met in college, lived in the same apartment complex after graduation, broke up for a while, and during that time I ended up solo traveling for almost 3 years. We eventually found our way back to each other after I moved back to the U.S. in late 2024, and we’ve now been back together for over a year.

The problem is that we’re still long distance, and I feel like I’m hitting my breaking point.

I live in a large, walkable city that I absolutely love. I work remotely, have my own studio apartment, and after years of constantly moving around, all I wanted was to finally build a stable life somewhere. I genuinely don’t want to leave.

He lives about a 6-hour drive away in the suburbs, works his first full-time job in his field, and lives with his parents so he can save money. Because I work remotely, I’m always the one traveling. Lately, he pays for my flights, which I’m grateful for, but they’re usually $300-400 round trip and I honestly hate spending that much just to visit somewhere I wouldn’t choose to vacation. It almost feels like salt in the wound every time I book another flight.

The hardest part isn’t even the travel itself. It’s saying goodbye every month.

I spend about a week or week and a half with him, we have an amazing time together, and then I sit in the airport knowing I’m about to go back to months of missing him. Every goodbye feels heavier than the last. My love languages are quality time and physical touch, so the distance affects me deeply.

Lately, it’s even affected my sex drive. We were together for over a week this trip and only had sex once. It’s not because I’m not attracted to him…I am. It’s because emotionally, the relationship has started to feel like it’s constantly being interrupted. Right when I settle into being together, it’s already time to leave again.

Here’s where I’m struggling.

I understand why he doesn’t want to move right now. He just started his career, he’s saving money by living at home, and he says he’s grinding now so we can have a better future together. I genuinely believe him.

But I’ve spent years taking huge risks. I moved to my current city with only three weeks’ notice. I traveled the world alone for years. Starting over has become second nature to me, so it’s hard for me to understand why he isn’t willing to take that leap for us.

At the same time, I don’t want to move to where he lives. I used to live in that state, and I have a lot of trauma tied to it from family and past friendships. Going back honestly feels like going backward in life. It’s also very suburban, car-dependent (I don’t own a car), and completely different from the life I’ve built where I am now.

Sometimes I catch myself feeling resentful because it feels like I’m the one doing all the compromising. I’m the one traveling every month. I’m the one rearranging my life because my job allows it. Meanwhile, his day-to-day life stays relatively the same.

I know that’s not entirely fair because he is making sacrifices too, just different ones. But emotionally, it feels like the ball is in his court. Like I’m waiting for him to decide when our life together can finally start.
We’ve also talked about marriage. Years ago he wasn’t interested, but now he tells me things like, “That’s the plan,” or “It’ll happen soon.” I believe he wants that with me, but after seven years, “someday” is starting to feel less comforting and more frustrating. I don’t feel like I have any real security or timeline.

I guess what I’m asking is…

Has anyone been in a situation where one partner needed more time before closing the distance? Did it work out?

How long is it reasonable to wait when you genuinely love someone and the relationship itself is healthy, but the distance is starting to impact your mental health?

I don’t want to leave him. I love him more than anyone I’ve ever loved, and outside of the distance, our relationship is honestly wonderful.

I’m just exhausted from feeling like my life, and our future together, is permanently on pause.

I’ve always been drawn to writing; I even got a degree in creative writing. My mind is extremely analytical, sometimes to a fault. I can get intensely curious about people, not in an outwardly intrusive way, but internally I want to understand everything: their motivations, their history, even details about past relationships. Human behavior has always fascinated me.

I’ve sometimes wondered if that makes me a little crazy because I can ruminate for hours on people who aren’t even active in my life anymore. Old flings, people I knew in elementary school (I’m 27 now) and I’ll still find myself wondering what happened to them. Sometimes I’ll look them up and feel oddly relieved just seeing that they’re okay, even when I have absolutely no desire to reconnect.

I daydream about alternate timelines and “what if” scenarios, while still having enough self-awareness and standards not to revisit situations that hurt me. My mind just likes to examine things from every angle. I can replay the same conversation or situation over and over, ranting to myself, dissecting it, searching for meaning long after everyone else has moved on.

The strange thing is that when I’m in it, I feel like I’ll never get over certain people or experiences. Then years later, I realize there are things I once thought about every day that barely cross my mind now. So I know I eventually move on…it just rarely feels that way in the moment.

I’m also incredibly observant. I notice details, patterns, inconsistencies, and shifts in behavior that most people miss. I can usually detect when something doesn’t add up pretty quickly. Not because I’m cynical or calculating toward other people, but because my brain is constantly collecting information and connecting dots. I don’t think I’ve ever really felt naive. If anything, I’ve always trusted my ability to read between the lines.

Finding out I have Scorpio in my 3rd house honestly made me laugh because, stereotypically, it fits. Deep curiosity, psychological analysis, obsession with understanding what’s beneath the surface; it sounds a lot like the way my mind has always operated.

i’m new here. carlos and wendy look very mexican… carlos looks more moreno and wendy does too when she wears her correct shade of foundation. why does vale look white?

26f here. My bf is 26M.

My boyfriend and I are currently staying in a house with some of his coworkers for a cabin trip.

One of his male coworkers seemed nice when I first met him, but throughout the night I started noticing behavior that made me uncomfortable. The coworker kept coming up to my boyfriend every few minutes to “dap him up”, except these weren't quick handshakes. They would hold hands for literal minutes at a time and it happened repeatedly throughout the night.

He was also constantly seeking my boyfriend out, standing very close to him, pulling him away from me for private conversations, and generally gravitating toward him more than anyone else in the group. I personally didn't see him interacting with the other coworkers in the same way.

At first I brushed it off, but after a while it started bothering me. I pulled my boyfriend aside and told him that the coworker's behavior was making me uncomfortable. My boyfriend said the coworker was drunk and that "some guys are just like that when they're drunk."

As the night continued, the coworker kept doing the same things, and I felt like my concerns were being ignored. I brought it up again, and my boyfriend became defensive. He insisted that the coworker acts like this with everyone and that I was reading too much into it.

The argument escalated because I felt like he was dismissing my feelings instead of trying to understand why I was uncomfortable. From my perspective, I wasn't asking him to stop being friends with the guy - I just wanted him to acknowledge that the behavior looked excessive and made me feel weird.

My boyfriend eventually agreed that he'd talk to the coworker if it continued, but by that point I was already hurt because it felt like he spent more energy defending his coworker than listening to me.
Now we're arguing while staying in a house with all of these coworkers, and I'm wondering if I'm overreacting.

AITA for being upset about the situation and feeling dismissed by my boyfriend?

is that the right order? what order for your dental hygiene routine

no but seriously this is getting exhausting. i’m on medication (caplyta 42mg, lamictal 20mg), i was doing emdr therapy, but i am consistent with treatment. lamictal is being restarted, titrating by 5mg since i had a rash scare in jan.

i had one off day bc the pharmacy didn’t refill my script in time and had to deal with the rage withdrawals of caplyta for one day. i told my bf i feel like a very bad person today and by the end of the day, i was fighting with him, making threats i don’t mean, begging for him to stay, etc.

we’ve been no contact since sunday evening where he said he needed space bc he still felt anxious and i thought he’d reach out today but he didn’t which sucks.

i just hate having this illness i hate how my brain is so mean to me and mean to anyone who wants to care about me and i try to do everything to not be abandoned just to feel like it. just to be told he’s scared of me just to be doing the freaking work and still struggling. i feel like love feels out of the cards for me even tho im only 26, i just feel like a train wreck everything. i literally ghosted most of my friends or randomly blocked them out of paranoia of them secretly hating me. now i understand why those ppl are hesitant to have me around. i’m just sick of feeling like a monster its like the way i want to see myself and the way people see me will never be the same even when i am trying to get better. i feel so avoided and disgusting.

i keep convincing myself he is about to leave me so i am trying to force myself i didn’t want it anymore anyways, even though deep down i know it’ll be my fault if he does, deep down it’ll confirm all of my fears i try to run from, deep down idk if i can take that heartbreak since he’s the closest i’ve ever been to someone. if this is the price of love, i don’t want to ever again