I have started learning astrology. Read that marriage will somewhat transform a person if such a placement is there. People with 8th lord in 7th house, if u can share ur experience. Please tell the planet as well.
I have felt so irritable, impatient, sensitive, I take everything so personally, I cannot express myself without being blamed for being dramatic, extra, or a sensitive person who can’t take a joke.
I think I’m just reaching a breaking point. I don’t have issues expressing myself until it is necessary. I usually try my best to hold back and go with the flow and then express my feelings if ongoing issues arise. And when I do voice a concern/ opinion, I just have to learn to take the joke cause that’s what everyone else does…. the jokes are usually about my autism, not catching things, or being called dumb… I’m sorry if I don’t always laugh at the same couple of jokes.
I also feel like I don’t have a reliable support system. I didn’t have any friends growing up and it’s only gotten worse since. I often blame my mood adjustment disorder, autism, and I’m currently in the process of possibly getting another diagnosis (OCD).
Weird question, but could you see illnesses, disorders, or disabilities in birth charts?
I needed a place to get things off my chest, thank you for reading. F 24.
Heavy 8th and 7th house placements along with a 9th house mars. Any insights on these house placements for me?
I’m a scorpio rising but I use Placidus so most of scorpio falls into my 12H. I’m a 8th house cancer sun & stellium. I often find myself interested in and attracted to scorpio suns but they are not interested in me. I wish they were because I feel like we could be a good match with our depth and perspective but they don’t give me the time of day😭😭
Fiance and I were talking about this recently. I told him I can control my dreams and he said that was another level. Curious if other 8th housers can control their dreams?
I'm planning an implant removal surgery, but at the same time facing another health issue. Should I postpone surgery till Mercury retrograde?
Since my teenage years I've had a very depressed life, dropped out of college, and struggled a lot. Recently I've restarted graduation and I'm preparing for a government job. My age is 30.
Will I be able to get a stable govt job? How will my financial stability look in the coming years?
I see some people saying that 8th house people are made for chaotic situations ect
I’m a Leo sun and Venus, Vx in Leo in the 8th (or Mars and mercury in cancer with whole sign) and obstacles make me want to end it all, to retract. I’m easily scared and uncomfortable.
I wish I could understand more and use my 8th house placements..
I’m trying to understand my chart more deeply, especially my overall personality pattern and emotional/psychological themes. I noticed I have strong 8th house placements along with significant Pisces energy, and I’m curious how that might show up in terms of mindset, relationships, and general life patterns. Any interpretation or insight would be appreciated.
Can anyone help me understand the Aries stellium in the 8th house? Thanks!
Hello everyone. trying to understand Vish Yog combination in this chart and aspect on the 4th house- where there is Ketu? and am i missing something else?
Hi all! I am not a Scorpio, but I've been enjoying reading all of your posts and getting a feel for all of your different perspectives and things and I have a question because I know someone in my life who is responding in a very Scorpio-like way to things that I'm not very familiar with since I am not a Scorpio and I have no Scorpio placements, and actually a good chunk of Scorpio is in my 12th house, so it's just not an energy-style that comes naturally to me, though I don't typically mind it or anything.
ANYWAY, I have a friend who is actually a Virgo, but they have their Sun and mercury in the 8th house and Pluto in Scorpio trining their Moon and I have MY sun and mercury in their 12th house so even though I'm not a person who is typically "psychic" in any sort of dependable way, sometimes I can kind of pick up on things that they don't say but that they FEEL which is interesting for me since I can't really do that with anybody else.
Anyways, recently I felt out the fact that they seem to be jealous of the attention that I give other people, like they don't like that I'm nice to other people and it feels like they wish that I would ONLY be nice to them/they get all of my attention. Now some of that might be their Leo venus talking, but it felt very ~ Scorpio ~ to me and I wanted a second opinion from other people who might be able to relate to this feeling on what I should do about this, if anything.
Like, on the one hand I want to make my friend happy and feel valuable, but on the other hand I don't think that I want them to necessarily be able to dictate what I DO and how I interact with other people.
I've also had it happen in the past where sometimes I have been less outspoken or friendly with people and it's felt like they've taken that as a go-ahead to craft a certain narrative around either me or our friendship or whatever and then other people don't really know the truth/the difference since they haven't really TALKED to me though. Though, I know that they have been working on being a better version of themselves over the last few years, so that might not play-out again the way that it has before, but I am unsure.
Any thoughts?
I mean... they're super inconsiderate and don't even ask if I have time for them... I nod and reassure them now and then out of politeness and keep listening to them not to come across as rude.
Days later they suddenly start acting defensive, weird, and avoidant, because now I know their 'secrets' and 'weaknesses.'
This has happened to me since early childhood. Do you relate?
I want to hear about the ones with good relationships with their mothers and why and what they did that made that possible. :) so much emphasis on the negative traits of Pluto. I would love to hear the feedback from you and your childhood's
Hello. I have Saturn at 0 degrees in conjunction with Venus in cancer for sagittarius lagna.
Wanting to understand this placement more.
Is it safe to assume that this conjunction is the reason why I have very little experience with the opposite sex?
Hi! So I have both my Lilith and Venus in my boyf’s 8th House and they are conjunct. What effect can this have on either of us?
So like majority of the people seeing this chart would interpret of a very hard relationship or something when i was at the starting of my rahu dasha in 2019 - 2022, i roamed here and there just for some validation and to listen good about my chart from astrologers but none of them gave me good points, so the thing is i have a very good and healthy relationship since 4 years and i am studying astrology too for 8th house factor, i just want to know what are your observations on 7 and 8th and if the houses are so malefic then why i am living a decent life.