u/Boring-Box5274

Excuse me for English grammar, am from Serbia. I want to share my experience with one.

I had sexual casual/fwb partners, but never I was fully sastified, until for the first time I met a Scorpio man recently. I'm a Pisces and I need more intense/deep energy even if its casual, but most dudes treated intimacy like a sport and release.

We both met on Tinder, he searched for casual, and I agreed, because I noticed his deep staring eyes even on photos, and it turned me on, lol.

The funniest thing? When I met him, he appeared kind of shy, nervous, reserved, but friendly.. I was disappointed and like "Meh, he will be nerdy and too shy in intimacy"..

Once we were in the room, and he kissed me, he let his guard down, became bold, dominant without zero words, just his presence were commanding..and is like he intuitively knew what I want and did all the right stuff

Intimacy was so intense and passionate, the best I ever felt in my life.

He was acting like I'm the woman he is most into just on the first damn date. Cannot imagine he can be even better, if just a casual sex is that deep and intense or how he treats the woman he actually love if he is this good just with some random woman. Very fascinating for sure.

Is not about the act itself or what he did that makes it so good, but the energy I felt with him. Is like he became totally lost in it, enjoying me and each moment genuinely. He worshiped my body, touched me/grabbed like he was "afraid" I will perish. Great stamina too. He then wanted us to go for a walk and we did it.

What I liked the most is that he acted so possessive during, and AFTER.
Anytime I would move just slightly during a sleep or keep some distance because I'm used to sleep alone, he would come close to me, and strongly grab me, search for my hands, waist, breathing in my neck and burried himself in me, holding me like someone is gonna came in and steal me.
He intertwined his arms and legs between mine and I couldn't move at all.

I also showed him back intensity too, and got lost in all of it myself.
Anyway, I'm thankfull I experienced finally for the first time a PROPER intimacy. He texted me a day after to meet again, and is now checking up on me each day and night to keep me on the hook, and I can't weit for more passionate moments.
Go Scorpios! lol

BUT, because I'm more emotional, I already plan to search for new casual partners just in case, because I don't want to get attached to this one, because intimacy is way too good, or I might see him just one more time and keep it as the memory of best intimacy of my life.

I cannot even call it a casual sex, it was a full blown mind/body intimacy intense.. whatever it was. Even if it was just an act, he did it greatly! No complaints.

I did heard Scorpio can be intense, but never expected it to be this good and this way.
Ladies, did you felt similar with such men and their intensity?
Share your experiences. I'm still under impressions and so, so satisifed that I don't even have to experience intimacy ever again, because just the memory of this will be enough to make me smile.

Sorry for English grammar.
I'm a woman, who is open to have children one day with compatible man.

The thing is, I discovered that having children depends on our natals, plus synastry.
I'm not sure if I should reject dates from men if synastry show no house overlays and "baby making" aspects.

I'm very attracted to any man I want to meet, but not sure there is even point to meet at all, when I check synastry and there are no children aspects: Mars/Moon, Moon/Jupiter, Jupiter/Mars/Moon, no 4/5 house overlays etc..

With the last one, all we have is MY Mars trine his Moon, lol. It should be other way around. Pathetic
His main planets are in my 8th.. I already feel discouraged.

Attraction and compatibility doesn't mean much in that case, if synastry is "barren" when it comes to children.

Mind you, I look for men who also want children if there is compatibility in other areas as well, so they are direct about it from start with me as well.

What is your opinion about it? Is it good vetting strategy to check synastry if someone wants children or not?

Edit: I removed my replies because I got downvotes even when I said I'm not into married men. I will not allow humiliation from some spitefull people.
I focused in my main question if he was attracted to me or not, not because I think him being married is irrelevant, but because I was in deadbedroom with my ex which affected me as a woman, so of course I made this about ME. I'm allowed to be insecure.

so yes, when this one told me BEFORE a meet about his marriage, of course I got insecure and assumed he doesn't find me desirable enough, because sadly most married men hidde status if they like a woman enough and will not risk to lost their chance.

It doesn't mean I would be with a cheating man, I'm glad he told me in advance, was just curious of his MOTIVES for telling me so. I would be curious about his level of attraction if he was single or divorced too.
To all the nice people who given their honest opinions, I thank you all, I'm not able to replay to you, because I'm not allowing anyone to humiliate me by downvoting me for no reason. I've read all your replies.
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Excuse me for English grammar.
I (40F) met a man of same age on Tinder. On his profile he said he is single, wants children etc. He texted me and video called for a month, asked me if I'm open to children and marriage down to road multiple times, because he doesn't want to waste either his or my time.

I told him I was was open to it but with a right person, just to reassure him that we are on the same page at least when it comes to that.
It wasn't some scam, he let me check his social media, linkedin, video called etc.

We tried to meet few times, he got "busy", but we had stayed in touch regulary.

Then it gets weird.
We finally managed to set up a first date. On the date of a meeting, he asked did I unmatched him on Tinder, I said "I didn't unmatched you, but removed my profile, its too overhelming, and I can't just meet with anyone".

He quoted this part: "I can't meet just anyone"
and said:
"I really like you, but I haven't told you something and I think it is fair to let you know. I actually live with my wife, it is not an ideal relationship, thats why I asked if you want children and something serious down the road if we click, because she doesn't want them. But I haven't shared this plan with her".

He said all that only couple hours before a meet. I replied I can't do it, I don't want to be a homewrecker. He said "Ok, I understand you. Sorry for wasting your time".

I was so disappointed because he was really my type, and is hard for me to find my type.

The reason why I'm confused still. Do you think by disclosing his marriage he actually wanted to turn me off and hoped I will cancel the meet? Maybe he met someone he likes better or just got cold feet

Because in my mind, if he was geniunely attracted to me and what he saw in photos, isn't it logical he would keep that secret until he actually saw me finally where he could explain his situation better, and not risk to ruin his chance by telling me on the same day of meeting ?
Same way, if he wanted maybe just an affair, he wouldn't tell me either.

Yeah, I know it wouldn't work, I know he is a POS, but just curious if he actually droped that truth to actually scare me and cancel the meet, which I did btw.
What do you think ?

I noticed this year is almost impossible to create new accounts without ban, people buy new phones and many got banned again.

BUT, I noticed the ones that actually last are users who use new Insta only in Brave Browser (incognito mode), and we are advised to NEVER use app again. It seems the biggest problem is something in app itself.

Is the Brave Browser only solution for now that is secure? Is far from ideal, we can't post reels or do much, but is still better for us who need old connections

It is recommended that we use a new phone after permaban.
But has anyone here created a new account on a new phone and it lasts at least over a year ?

I tried to log into my banned account.

I was originally banned on 24th April, now it says on 21th May?! Why did they changed it ?

They are so shady

I still have my new insta for more then 3 weeks on the same device where I'm banned previously for integrity, but am too anxious now. Their AI can always ban me again. Is not worth it anymore to use Insta, imo.

Can you tell me please am I allowed to type this on insta bio: "TikTok: my username"

I want my followers to see it, and search me on there if they want to, in case Im banned again.

Is it safe or not allowed?

If we create accounts on Brave, does it count as if we created it on a NEW phone actually? (fingerprinting is blocked on Brave)

If yes, can I use that account from Brave on my sister's phone (her Instagram app) until I buy a new phone?
Even when I buy a new phone, I would use account that I created on Brave.

I hope I make sense.

I was permabanned 2 days ago for integrity, but I can still see my username in my sister's and friend dm.
Of course when I click on it, it says "user not found" but it still shows my username at the top of profile.

Does it mean anything or my hope for random recovery one day is just a wishfull thinking?

I created new account on brave browser over 20 days ago. People advice not to login ever again on app on the same device, so I accepted that. Not ideal, but we have no choice

I followed only few but different pages. They advice not to follow same people either

On my banned account I posted art, is it safe to post my paintings again as portfolio on new one?

I wouldn't use same photos from banned account, but I plan to take NEW pics of the SAME paintings BUT in different background?

Or we have to be completly different person/new interests etc. on new account?

Excuse me for English, am from serbia and I don't have right now patience to word it perfectly.
I used my last try to upload my ID, and I'm finally permabanned for integrity/fake account. At least I didn't weited 180 days for them to decide. 🤦🏻‍♀️

This is the text I sent to some of their mails people
posted for us here.
I'm pissed of right now and what I sent is kind of vent. Is not for recovery, lol.

I know they wont read, I know they don't care, but I decided not to care either. They became too unreliable and what they are doing to people is outrageous.
Sure, there are scammers and all kind of crazy people on their app, but they ban too many innocent people for all kind of f. up shit.

I'm sad I can't use it anymore, but their AI moderation is broken. The greatest irony in all this? Their AI BOTS accuse many of us to be fake and bots. 🤦🏻‍♀️
I wish I can offer some help, but can't. Wish all of you to get your accounts back tho. I'm done. Stay well.

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"Dear" Meta "Support"

Your technology disabled my account wrongfully and by mistake. 
Your technology absolutely do not use "same" rules for all the users, because countless of innocent people are getting wrongfully accused and disabled for the last 2 years,  and that practice still continues.

Everyone is aware of that, while the real scammers, bots use your platform with no problem. 

Your own platform allow its users to have multiple accounts, then they are accused by your so called technology of being "fake" and "unauthentic". So make up your mind: Are users allowed to have multiple accounts or not. Do not accuse them of the very same thing that your platform offer them in the first place. 

I absolutely did not create fake account. I used my account for art, staying in touch with the people I know or likeminded people. I mean, your own platform promote "Instagram brings you closer to the people and things you love".

I'm disabled wrongfully because I used your platform to do exactly that: To get closer to the people and posted the things that I like. I used my real photos as well, so there is nothing fake about that. 

I do not ask you for any fruther review, because you will not be missed by many in the way you hoped so. Many people thankfully are moving from your app to other apps and alternatives where their technology is not wrongfully accusing them of having fake accounts or whatever your fault technology decide on its own.

I saw many suspended/banned users moved to TikTok. Of course, most are not happy to lost their Instagram, but they have no choice for now.

Do you think TikTok will replace in some way Instagram if the problem with ban waves continue?
It is not totally safe app either from suspension, but people say is not that strict like Insta.

What do you think?

Some of the men I liked the most were not enough attracted to me for rl, only casual.

In synastry, just as I quessed, noone of them aspected my ASC. Their Venus/Mars/Moon did not conjunct my ASC. And it says it is the most important factor in how much a man will be attracted to a woman. Especially his Venus in conjunction to woman's ASC says to be his IDEAL type.

Fun fact: One told me that I'm not quite his type, and his Venus squared my ASC!
One wasn't attracted as well, and yup.. his Venus made an opposition to my ASC.

I canceled a date with one man because he made no aspects to my ASC, even though he complimented my looks, but I wasn't convinced when I checked our synastry.

I know it might sound silly, but I do believe now that synastry aspects do matter after my negative experiences.

It ruined a bit of my confidence because I'm not unattractive at all, and if I knew about synastry earlier it would save me so much disappointment and onesided crashes.

Is it a smart move to check synastry with any new man before a date, especially aspects to our ASC so that we are assured to be his type at least ?