AITJ for not going to the hospital to be there for my sister?
I (26f) have a family member who's giving birth soon. I want be there but can't. We live a few hours from each other. I been admitted to the hospital several times this year. Im still dealing with them and on medical equipment just to get through the day. I also have all day appointment on the day she goes to the hospital. I would have to cancel it if i can get there. Also would have to pack everything plus medical equipment. I dont want to burden her or her bf when shes about to give birth.I love her and im struggling with not being there. We may not be the closest. Im praying she will be okay. Its also hard to talk to her because she always thinks i don't care or she's easily aggravated by my voice. AITJ for not being there?
TDLR: Am I the jerk not being at the hospital with my sister?