US/Canada border
Anyone have an affair which necessitates crossing the US/Canada border? Were you honest with the border agents? I started out by saying I was meeting up with a friend, which got them thinking I was either an escort or being trafficked and they would drill me with questions to that effect. Then I started traveling alone to shop, but when I was never actually buy anything this has become a problem too. When I want to stay overnight that puts the US border agents in a tizzy when I try to return!! My affair partner as a man has rarely had issues but has been asked when crossing with his wife “when was the last time you’ve entered the US” which could definitely cause problems! Also the use of flock cameras in my area will make his future comings and goings an issue because I’m afraid he will need to be honest with his intentions as well. How do the border agents handle “I am having an affair and going to spend time with my boyfriend”?!? Every single crossing has become more problematic and I feel I need to just tell them.