u/Easy-Molasses7305

private wedding photo edit

Hi! I’m looking for help with an edit.

I’d like a few people removed from the picture and, if possible, have the bride and groom centered a bit better in the frame. If that part isn’t doable, no worries at all.

Please DM me if you’re interested and I’ll share the photo and details privately.

Thank you! 🙏

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u/Easy-Molasses7305 — 11 days ago

How do you stay disciplined when music still isn’t paying the bills?

Been thinking a lot lately about how weird it is trying to balance survival and creativity at the same time. I found this vlog from Jonathan Ogden, and it honestly felt more motivating than all the “10x hustle” content online.

Video: My Daily Life As An Independent Musician | Manchester, UK

What I liked is that he doesn’t romanticize the process. It’s not some overnight success story, it's literally just the daily reality of being an independent artist: recording, admin work, trying to stay consistent, trying not to burn out, then waking up and doing it again. Weirdly comforting seeing someone build slowly instead of pretending they blew up in six months.

The part that stuck with me most was how much discipline matters once the initial excitement fades. Inspiration is cool, but routines are probably what keep most artists alive long enough to improve.

For those of you balancing music with work/school/life stuff, what’s harder for you personally: finding the time, or finding the mental energy to keep showing up consistently?

u/Easy-Molasses7305 — 12 days ago

Trying to feel better in my clothes, would starting the gym help?

Hi everyone,

I’ve been feeling pretty insecure about how my body looks in my clothes, and I’m trying to figure out what might actually help me feel more comfortable and confident.

Sometimes I really like an outfit in my head, but once it’s on my body, I start fixating on every part I don’t like and wondering if my shape is “ruining” the look. I don’t want to hate my body, but it’s hard not to be critical when I see myself in mirrors or photos.

Lately I’ve been thinking about going to the gym or doing some kind of regular movement to feel stronger and more connected to my body. At the same time, I’m scared of feeling judged, becoming obsessed with changing myself, or slipping into a bad mindset around exercise.

https://preview.redd.it/w8lh5i66460h1.png?width=1086&format=png&auto=webp&s=3613d5504de1e3223a7f483de5e82ed8c594a420

I’d really love to hear from other women about:

  • If you started going to the gym (or doing any regular movement), did it actually help you feel better in your clothes and in your body, even before any big physical changes?
  • How did you keep it focused on strength/health/mental well‑being instead of punishment or chasing a “perfect” body?
  • If the gym wasn’t for you, what else helped you feel more okay in your own skin and in your outfits?

I’m not looking for crash-diet tips or harsh criticism, and I know strangers on the internet can’t give me personalized medical advice. I’m just hoping for gentle, honest experiences from other women about whether starting the gym (or other forms of movement) helped your relationship with your body.

Thank you so much to anyone who reads and responds

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u/Easy-Molasses7305 — 13 days ago