u/Easy_Number4313

We are considering opening our marriage and the discussion plus our experiences going to a club made us ask, are we going to swing? Are we poly? Is there an in between?

We agree random sex with random people isn’t our thing. We also aren’t trying to add to love to what we might do with others. Is it normal to want to have a best friend w benefits situation? Hubby has a gf and wife a bf but it’s not love, has anyone done something like that? Would it be better to date another couple or have a single male and female for play?