How to soft launch moving out
This is probably the stupidest I have ever written but it’s okay. So, I (16M) have been nonstop arguing with my mom since summer started. She keeps getting drunk (since she gets no play) and yelling at me claiming I don’t have a job. Mind you, last summer I had to get a job because she needed extra money. So sue me because we’re leaving on a summer trip mid June and didn’t want to waste my time before that working then have to quit because no job is gonna let me get time off for two months?? So we’ve just been arguing so much. And to top things off my STUPID sister is back in town even though I told her she isn’t wanted here. She always butts into the argument like “oh well I was working at your age…” Like no duh she was working she was saving up for an apartment when she moved out.
My mom started doing room raids again because she’s sure I’m vaping. Just because I went through a phase during the school year does not mean I’m still doing it right now. She also backwashes my Owala because she thinks I have vodka or something in there. I can’t stand her. Living in this house makes me want to claw my eyes out and live the rest of my life in a season of American Horror Story. I CANT do this.
That brings me to the title. My boyfriend (18M) ((and before anyone mentions the age gap he just turned 18 we were dating when he was 17 and he’s gonna dump me when he goes to college anyways)). He’s going camping next weekend then his parents are going off for some vow renewal thing. So he said that I could come camping with them then stay with him until the trip (then probably go back with them after).
And I know this sounds weird but I couch hop a lot whenever my mom gets like this. Everyone knows how bad she is and how much she wants to ruin my life. It’s just that usually whenever I couch hop it’s because she kicked me out then she’ll feel bad then invite me back in. This time I’m just gonna leave. I’ve started packing my things. Currently I have my princess bedsheets, mini fridge, and hair treatment at his house because those are all things she isn’t going to look for in my room. But I also have a suitcase in the corner of my room that is currently going unnoticed because she thinks it’s for our trip but no it’s for his house. And I can’t just ask to leave because she’ll obviously say no bc she’ll think I’m going just to get cracked. As if this house isn’t an active warzone.
If you’re going to tell me not to that’s not gonna go anywhere so maybe just don’t. I just need help on how to tell her I’ll be gone for a couple of weeks because I can’t stand her. I need to do this before my sister finds out and snitches because she likes being a rat. Any advice helps! :)