u/Economy-Copy-7914

so I was thinking about my Girlfriend today she's 18F and I am 19M so what happened is that - she has a male best friend I know I know you all are writing up things in your head to call me 'insecure' I know that but hear me out please, I need some help.

So, we are in a long distance relationship and she had a creep texting her over instagram one day and she sent me what is happening with her and gave me her ID and password so I logged in she has 2FA on so I asked for OTP obviously so I was just checking what she has texted that creep so that I know my next move what to text him.

I saw this guy let's name him P he was texting her while I have just logged in the notification pops up right? she told him to login too to handle that creep and even had sent him her id and password and he was just forcing her to give him the OTP and she did but with a delay

another big thing, when I scrolled up to see other chats she had with him I observed it was just that day's chats this means the chats were deleted.

I instantly logged out because I was obviously hurt seeing that she trusts him more than me but before logging out I took a screenshot and asked about him she said 'woh toh childhood bff hai', I told her to keep the relationship private but since he has access to her account this means he can check what we talk about right?

I was so angry inside, because if I hadn't logged in I would never have known that there's a third party right? but I don't let my anger out so fast so I texted her two long paragraphs that 'there should be scalability of exclusivity' and telling her that 'I am not against you having chats with this friend, chat all you want but I think he shouldn't have access to your acc even I shouldn't (I logged in in incognito and there's 2FA on on her end) have I think we should have our chats private now it's your wish to decide what you wanna do'

she just replied 'alright' and I kinda have a bad feeling about this...because I never involve in having some female bestfriend a girl texted me randomly that day and I blocked her she even has access to my account so that she has more trust in me but can't I even have this small trust on her? I NEED solution on this please.

I am scared to talk to her about this topic kahi 'tu bohot insecure hai yaar' na boledey

tl;dr Long distance girlfriend has a childhood male best best friend and I couldn't have discovered about this guy if I never logged in to her account and found many red flags need solutions.

Does anyone here listen to GMT? what's the best story and the worst story you heard so far? to me the best was mohasindhur opaar theke, and the worst was 'shorisrip' (kono mathamumdu nei) tell yours.

ami amar ta boli so I'm 17M ami ekhon 12th e pori (porer bochhor college YAYYY!!) I'm in NN (WB board - naam ei school ta dariye ache ekhono porjonto) so I had my first crush when I was in 8th october so amader section e ekta meye porto let's name her X, so she was the school topper (ami oirokom #5 ki #6 hotam school e) and I got massive crush on her...holo ki october mase or seat last bench e fix hoye gelo and amar 2nd last (bujhe jaao ki hoy erpor 😃) so I was so scared to confront and say I like her...toh tai jonno chepe gelam but many of my friends knew they intimidated me, tarpor school e house competition holo - recitation - I got ranked over her 🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️ I was 3rd she was 6th she congratulated me and I was so happy after that oi din porasona holo na amar dara maa bolchhilo 'tui kono meyeke like koris naki re? 💀' ediye gelam tarpor school e ekta year end function holo - rabindranath takur er puraton bhritto puro jhorjhore mukhosto kore gelam....and she was in oddisi (Idk the name fully) dance and recitation toh holo ki - recitation er por or dance chhilo and she was wearing her saree and ornaments and....OH. MY. GOD. bhai ota manush na debi? nirghat অরণ্যদেবী elo chul and the choker on her neck 🛐🛐🛐 amar age or naam chhilo puro somoy ta or roop take just gilechhi ami recitation e se bar rank korini she ranked #2 no issues for that...tarpor move on holo.

tell me your stories.