u/Economy-Permit4340

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Shocked at the amount of home ed kids below national average with reading , writing and maths

I have recently started to home ed and have noticed a large proportion of the home ed kids are way below national level .

It shocks me and makes me think they ​ would be better off going to​ school since most of these kids I've witnessed ​ are not being home ed because of past trauma in schools / SEND etc, they are home ed because the parents simply don't like the school system and the kids have never set foot into a school building .

I​'m assuming these kids are unschooled or the parents are out of their depth , starting out with good intentions .

Do you think these parents have failed their kids ?

Edit: I apologise if I have hit a nerve , I'm just genuinely curious as to why this seems to be the outcome in the home ed community as this would not be an acceptable outcome for my children and hoping I don't fall into the same spiral​ .

To answer the common questions:

" Have I assessed each child individually "?

No, but I have had parents approach me with their children's workbooks and I can see they are miles behind . For example, I saw a child's workbook recently and they are 5 years behind , the parents regularly approach me as i'm a tutor in that subject area and have done a degree in that subject ( being intentionally vague as I know my local home ed community use this forum ).

This child is completely capable as I have taught some concepts to the child as he's part of my youth group , he just seems completely uninspired and bored, the parent seems out of their depth. That's just one example of many I have encountered

" only 60% of pupils leave primary being able to read, write etc"

That seems like a blanket statement without looking at the individual statistics . I wonder about the demographics , and areas that may have affected​ that statistic . I have many teacher friends in my local community based on my line of work. The common complaint is that most parents don't bother to encourage learning at home ( like read to them etc)

They just assume all responsibility to the teachers including behaviour of their children

Of course the schools are suffering due to lack of funding . Parental input is definitely something required for your child's academic success ​regardless of how good the school is and there's just not enough of it .

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