It would be recorded, but anonymity will be totally respected if required. I want to do what you've done, and I want others to know how, too. Would anybody be willing to donate anywhere from 30 to 60 minutes of their time whenever it's convenient for them?
Well, just heard about the COA debacle. AFTER I ordered. Thing is, I've ordered twice in the past. I get blue razz and that's what I got this time. I believe it working -- not quite sure yet. Anybody else out there?
He told her that Mama is the reason we're not together because she didn't try, that he doesn't have to respect her, and that she's a bad mom. I will add that he's been having serious behavioral problems and making up a lot of stories lately.
I have never said ANY of this to our son or anything even close to it. I am totally opposed to conveying anything negative to a child about any of their family members. Furthermore, nothing he said reflects my actual beliefs. Not even close.
The only thing I can possibly attribute this to is when she and I were arguing heavily from about 6 to 12 months ago. We both said some pretty bad shit about each other and he absolutely heard a lot of it. Naturally, I'm having a calm talk with him when he gets home, and I will be sure to reinforce that is mother is best in the world and that we both made the decision to split because it's the best thing for him and us, even if it hurts.
Worse, he said this to her parents, too. I am horrified.
EDIT: I will clarify this: he does not have behavioral problems with me. This isn't a flex; in fact, I'm disturbed about it. I always tell him that respecting and loving mommy is one of the most important things in your life. He is six years old
Early 30s, just got laid off. Pretty big and strong, can go for hours and hours. One problem: I can't drive a truck for shit. It's like this mental block I have. What are my options?
Would you do it?