u/Ecstatic-Army-7828

Hey all, I’m looking for some advice.

I’m AFAB non-binary in my early 40s living in a New York City. Since having top surgery a few years ago, I’ve been more attracted to women, which I’ve never explored before, and the attraction has been supercharged since starting low dose T.

I kind of want to explore this but I have almost no dating or sex experience with any gender. I was so uncomfortable in my body that sex with men never felt right. I couldn’t fathom dating because I didn’t want to put this burden on someone else.

Now, I’m so anxious and embarrassed that I continue not to do anything about the feelings.

Have any of you experienced something similar and how did you handle it?