Soon to be ex husband says don’t engage
So I (F24) and soon to be ex husband (M41) are going through a divorce. We got separated last month and we have a 15 month old son.
I know this going to be get messy because we’re both stubborn and don’t back down.
He owns the apartment we lived in. We have a prenup. I don’t care to be here to be honest, I actually want to move out ASAP.
He is scared that I’m going to file for child support (which I already did) because he doesn’t know how he’s going to afford the mortgage for the apartment, his regular bills, and now child support.
I don’t see how that’s my problem. I’m not complaining of taking care of my son all by myself. He doesn’t check in, he doesn’t ask about him, doesn’t even buy a gallon of milk. He’s telling everyone he can’t see our son because of me LOL!
Biggest joke of the year I guess
* have multiple messages and recorded phone calls begging him to come see him even for an hour and he refuses “because he can’t be near me”… I guess I have the plague y’all.
Well we were supposed to do alternating weekends. This weekend is his. I’ve been texting him and calling so that way I can plan accordingly because this mom needs a child free weekend ASAP.
He told me his attorney told him he can’t engage with me, even when it comes to the baby. I call BS!
I have no idea what to do, I feel like filing for sole custody because that’s basically what I’m doing in the first place.
My life is a joke.
Thoughts?