Was i being love bombed or is it anxious attachments?
Been talking to this girl for like 2 weeks now, at first i approached her in a professional way regarding a mutual thing we both work on then she texted me on instagram and we both started talking for 4 days consistently and the energy in the conversation was mutual so no one was putting more effort than the other, we were both complimenting each other and talking about different stuff for hours and we do have alot of things in common and at one point she said “i like you” and i said “i like you too”. After that things slowed down and i get it we both have our own lives and we don’t live in the same city and i need to give her space and i’m not gonna let anxious attachments take over me. i got left on delivered for 2 days while she’s posting stories and then she finally replied and said “sorry i saw your messages but i forgot to reply” the word “forgot” kinda got me there but ofc i’m not gonna let anxious attachments take over so i replied normally and again left on delivered for over a day and then she replied when i posted a story and when i replied she left me again on delivered till i posted a story and only then she replied again, i don’t know if the pattern of her replying to me only when i post a story is a thing or not. the last time i replied to her texts i was left with radio silence. 2 days left on delivered and then left on seen for a day now without a reply while she’s posting stories and being so active online. I really really like her and I don’t wanna ruin something just because i may have anxious attachments but i know i don’t like to be clingy or push things and i also have boundaries and i don’t like to be treated that way. I was feeling terrible and my nervous system was on edge in the past few days.