u/EdifyAndCreate

NAR Residue?

Do you have any specifically NAR / Word of Faith tendencies or mindsets that you still routinely say, do, or struggle to break the habit of?

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u/EdifyAndCreate — 3 days ago

When NAR Deconstruction Trends, Suddenly It’s Aliens! 👽

Several high-profile pastors have recently claimed they were privately warned by U.S. government/intelligence-connected figures to prepare churches for coming UFO revelations and “spiritual warfare” implications. But there’s still no public evidence or official confirmation of these meetings.

Anyone else think this feels like a massive red herring?

Right as abuse scandals, cover-up culture, and deconstruction stories are gaining momentum, suddenly the conversation shifts toward aliens, demons, disclosure, and cosmic warfare — a bigger, stranger, emotionally charged narrative that pulls focus from the actual scrutiny.

The timing is hard to ignore...

I enjoyed this conversation over at RE3: Rethink Renew Reconstruct:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9BfuvGbzhDc

u/EdifyAndCreate — 7 days ago

A lot of believers have walked through confusing or painful church experiences in the New Apostolic Reformation. Sometimes realising we’re not alone in that experience is healing.

My prayer is that these conversations would lead us toward truth, healing, discernment, forgiveness and deeper dependence on Christ. 🙏

Feel free to share your experience in the comments if you’re comfortable.

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u/EdifyAndCreate — 15 days ago

Video: Bizarre Claims Charismatics Don’t Want You To Question

One thing this video captures really well is how hyper-spiritualized environments like the NAR can slowly train people to interpret everything through a supernatural lens.

Ordinary things become:
“prophetic signs,”
“spiritual warfare,”
“confirmation,”
“attacks from the enemy,”
or proof that a leader is especially “anointed.”

There are real psychological dynamics behind this too: confirmation bias, suggestibility, group conditioning, social reinforcement, and “thought-terminating clichés” — phrases that shut down deeper questioning and critical evaluation.

Over time, discernment can get reframed as rebellion, while phrases like “eat the meat, spit out the bones” normalize tolerating serious doctrinal problems and even unhealthy leadership dynamics. Looking back, I can see how much my own thinking became shaped by hyper-spiritualization instead of careful, contextual engagement with Scripture.

What kinds of hyper-spiritualization or thought-terminating clichés did you encounter in NAR / hyper-charismatic spaces? And how do you think those environments shaped the way you interpreted reality, leadership, or Scripture at the time?

u/EdifyAndCreate — 16 days ago

Good morning everyone! I’m still learning as a new mod, so thanks for your patience.

My hope for this group is that it stays a supportive, healing space: focused on encouragement and building each other up. I know that’s something many of us need after leaving the NAR.

Links and resources are welcome, but please add a bit of context? Maybe a question or thought to invite discussion. Let’s be mindful to share things that genuinely help and encourage others.

I’d also love to see more discussion posts: sharing your experiences, asking questions, and inviting others in. I’ve added some post flair options too... I hope they help us organise posts and connect more easily.

If you have ideas for improvements, please feel free to share. And if you haven’t shared your Leaving NAR story yet, you’re always welcome... someone else may really need to hear it.

Thanks for being here and helping make this a supportive space. God bless you all! 🙏

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u/EdifyAndCreate — 17 days ago
▲ 19 r/LeavingNAR+1 crossposts

Who the Lord sets free is free indeed.

The Gospel calls the broken and weary into rest.

No more striving for what was never ours to carry.

Christ alone.

Scripture alone.

u/EdifyAndCreate — 14 days ago
▲ 7 r/LeavingNAR+2 crossposts

“Snatched from the Flames” is an online discipleship and support group for Christian women who have come out of false teachings (e.g., WOF, NAR, prosperity gospel, New Age, progressive Christianity, etc.). Led by Dawn Hill (Lovesick Scribe) and Emily Massey (We Would Rather Have Jesus), the group offers a safe space to share stories, find healing, encourage one another, and grow in truth together.

📅 Monthly Zoom calls
📧 To join: snatchedfromtheflamesmin@gmail.com

Please include:

  • First & last name
  • Location (no need for city)
  • Time zone
  • Why you want to join
  • How long you’ve been out of false teaching
  • Whether you’d consider sharing your testimony in the future

More info: https://lovesickscribe.com/snatched-from-the-flames/

Note: I’m not aware of a men’s group yet, but if you know of one, please share! I’ll pass along any info if I hear of one.

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u/CheeseLoving88 — 26 days ago

Leaving the NAR is a journey with a lot of twists and turns. What often starts as a single red flag can grow into something you can’t ignore.

This interview with Jason Walkerow comes just 30 days after leaving a NAR church he was deeply involved in. It’s a really relatable and encouraging conversation: he shares the red flags he began noticing, how he came to recognize unbiblical teachings, and offers practical insight into healing and finding freedom after leaving the New Apostolic Reformation.

I only discovered the “RE3: Rethink, Renew, Reconstruct” channel yesterday (it’s fairly new), but I’ve already watched several videos and found them genuinely helpful for those of us processing life after the NAR.

u/EdifyAndCreate — 29 days ago

For 7 years in NAR circles, I constantly heard “Read the Word!”… but no one ever actually showed me how to study it... at all.

I didn’t know what hermeneutics or exegesis even meant, let alone how to apply them. I’d read, sure, but I didn’t feel equipped to really understand Scripture in context.

Since leaving, I’ve been incredibly grateful to come across a study that actually taught me the skills and gave me the confidence to dig into the Bible properly for myself... looking at context, structure, and letting the text speak for itself.

“How to Study Your Bible in 28 Days” by Kay Arthur. It breaks things down in a really practical, accessible way and helped me move from just reading to actually observing and studying. Will drop a link below.

This makes me think about Acts 17 and the Berean Jews... how they examined the Scriptures daily to test what they were hearing from Paul. It's so vital to test what we hear and understand the Bible for ourselves... so we don't fall for false teaching.

Curious.. what tools, methods, or resources have helped you actually learn how to study the Bible?

Would love to hear what’s worked for others 🙏 God bless!

LORD, TEACH ME TO STUDY THE BIBLE IN 28 DAYS

u/EdifyAndCreate — 30 days ago

Survivor’s guilt is a psychological experience where a person feels distress, guilt, or unworthiness for having escaped a situation that others are still trapped in.

Thoughts like: “Why did I get out when they’re still there?” or “I should be doing more…”

There’s so much freedom on the other side: unlearning harmful teaching, healing from spiritual abuse, and rediscovering who God truly is through Scripture. Learning grace, walking in the freedom of Christ… honestly, it’s incredible. Praise God 🙏✨

But alongside that freedom, there’s also grief.

I think about people I love who are still there... sincere, good, beautiful brothers and sisters. And there’s this ache… wishing they could see what I couldn’t see for so long.

Lately, I’m holding onto a few things:

- It’s okay to feel freedom and grief (Romans 12:15)

- It’s not my job to save everyone (John 6:44)

- God cares for them even more than I do (2 Peter 3:9)

So I’m praying, trusting them to God, and staying open if He gives opportunities to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15).

And I’m learning to give myself grace too. I won’t do this perfectly... especially while still healing. But God is faithful, even when I’m not (2 Timothy 2:13).

If you’ve experienced this… please share your thoughts and how the Lord is helping you through it.

Would love to hear 🤍

God bless you!

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u/EdifyAndCreate — 1 month ago

I’m curious how people first began to question or re-evaluate their involvement with NAR (New Apostolic Reformation) teachings or churches.

If you’re open to sharing, I’d really appreciate hearing more details in the comments about what led you to that point.

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u/EdifyAndCreate — 1 month ago