Adult woman in Chennai being confined and threatened by parents over relationship. What legal options does she have?
Posting on behalf of a friend (23F) from Mylapore, Chennai. (Used AI for writing this post, however, all contents are real).
She is in a relationship with a 24M, but her parents strongly oppose it and are trying to force her into marriage with someone else. They have told her that if she refuses, she should leave the house, and they are also demanding that she “repay all the money spent on her since birth.”
Over the past few months:
- They have been restricting her movement.
- They frequently take away her phone.
- They do not allow her to go out freely.
- They intentionally avoid saying threatening things when her phone is nearby, so recordings are difficult.
She says she feels unsafe and recently told us she is scared her parents may seriously harm or even kill her.
She is supposed to leave for an internship in Pune next month, but until then she is stuck at home.
Some additional context:
She already contacted the police once and explained the situation, but since there is no direct evidence like recordings/videos, no strong action was taken.
Her younger sister has also suffered severe mental distress in the same household and previously attempted suicide by slitting both wrists. According to my friend, the parents allegedly did not even take her for proper medical treatment immediately. Other relatives are not willing to help.
Her boyfriend lives nearby, but everyone is worried that if she leaves with him, the parents may file a false kidnapping or abduction complaint even though she is a major (23 years old). We have:
Text messages from her describing the abuse and fear.
Chat backups saved by multiple friends.
No direct recordings of threats yet.
Questions:
Since she is an adult, what legal rights does she have if she wants to leave home voluntarily?
Can parents legally confine or restrict an adult daughter like this? What precautions should she and her boyfriend take to avoid false kidnapping allegations?
Would sending an email or written statement to the local police station before leaving help create a record that she is leaving voluntarily?
Are there women’s organizations, helplines, or legal aid services in Chennai that can intervene in such cases?
If she genuinely fears for her life, what is the fastest and safest legal route available?
Any serious legal guidance would be appreciated.