Now im actually frustrated Need genuine advice
....(Used gpt to make it short 🥀)
And if i get better advices the next part with chats ✌🏻 NOW ENJOY
So I’m 18M, working on my online business, and I haven’t given a shit about this world since I was 14.
So
I met a girl online around 2 years ago. We talked for a while, but because of some of her habits, I blocked her. After 3–4 months, one of her friends contacted me and told me she had died. I literally froze. I sent her a request, she accepted, and when I told her everything, she said her friend was lying. I had already fought with that guy before, so we stopped talking. Later, I wished her on her birthday, and we started talking again. This time, she proposed to me, and everything was going great. I even met her once and we exchanged flowers.
After almost a year of relationship, she started lying over useless arguments and playing the victim. Her friend’s boyfriend was also not a good guy, so I simply told her, “Why are you talking to him in class?” She stopped talking to me, and I used a sarcastic tone on her story/notes just for fun. She then started saying I was jealous of her stories and notes 💀.
There was also a guy from her class who was immature and whom I had already fought with. He messaged me about my relationship with her, and I told him I would talk to her because it was none of his business. He started fighting with me and eventually abused my ex too. Months later, my ex uploaded a picture with him. I reminded her that he was the same guy who abused both of us, and she said, “Ab toh gaali nahi deta.” 😭
After another picture with him, I confronted her again. She started defending him and lying, and when she ran out of excuses, she started begging me, saying she had made a mistake. But this time, I broke up with her.
Four months later, her friend contacted me again because my ex wanted to talk. My 14-year-old sister had access to my Instagram, so she accepted the request and started talking to her while I was in a meeting. Her friend thought she was talking to me and everything got messy.
Later, I logged in, asked my ex what she wanted, but I had meetings and couldn’t talk. She replied, “Agar no contact break karna tha toh batana chahiye tha, pehle se ready rehti.” Like girl 🥀.
My sister and my ex kept talking, and my ex started showing her that she still loved me. The next day, I apologized to her friend for my sister’s behaviour and also messaged my ex to apologize. Then I told my ex that her friend shouldn’t have come to me just to show her frustration and throw around words like “lack of communication” and “set narrative.” I told my ex that, in my opinion, this whole situation looked like micro-cheating.
She defended her again 😭💔.
After that, my sister and my ex kept talking, and my sister tried to solve things between us. I told my ex that she was talking to my sister and asked why she was showing that she loved me. She said everything was “sarcasm.”
I told my sister to stop talking to her. They argued, and my sister pointed out my ex’s mistakes and asked her, “If you love him, why are you defending other people and lying?”
My ex’s ego got hurt, so she blocked my sister and told me she didn’t want to talk to her anymore. I told her, “Maine toh mana kiya tha, bacchi hai woh, mat baat kar.”
And after that i literally send her the voice notes which she never deserved. But her ego again hurted then i told her to not to contact me again so i have actual and crazy anger rn. 🤡🙏🏻