Any advice po?
Any aadvise po pls
My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. Before, we lived closer to each other, so I often stayed at her boarding house during my days off, and our relationship was happy and okay. But when I moved back to Taguig for work in a BPO company, even though I was always tired and sleep-deprived, I never failed to update her and I still traveled to Laguna on my days off just to spend time with her.
However, in the past few weeks, I noticed that she started replying less often, sometimes taking days or even a week before responding. There were also times when she would say, “I don’t want this anymore,” but I didn’t know if she was joking or serious, so I would just laugh it off. Then one time I visited and stayed over again, but she had already become distant—she avoided hugging me and barely talked to me.
When I got home, I asked her what I did wrong. She only replied, “Sorry, but there’s someone else already… I also want to settle down and have peace of mind.” I still don’t fully understand what she meant—whether she already found someone else or if she just needed space. The next day, she kept repeating, “I don’t want this anymore” and “We’re over,” saying things will never go back to how they used to be.
What hurts me the most is that she never gave me a chance to fix things or even properly talk about the problems in our relationship. Until now, I’m still full of questions, and the pain is overwhelming—especially when you work graveyard shifts but still can’t sleep when you get home because of how heavy everything feels inside, nakakaiyak lang kasi isipin for almost a years napakdali nya lang ako binatawan
Thnks.