I am 22F and have been in this stiuationship for almost 5 months. He is 24 btw and we have beeen dating exclusively for the past 5 months and its been amazing at the most.
When I met him he told me he is over his ex but not from the pain that brak up caused. He had mentioned this a couple of times that he wants to have confrontation with his ex and has been trying for almost a year but she has blocked him from all possible ways and she was on another continent for most of the year, now that she is back he feels he needs to have a confrontation and get closure. Basically his ex left her over a text and he never really got to properly discuss the breakup with her even when they met. His therapist said he has a narcissistic wound and he feels he needs to let her know how much she hurt him and also wants to apologise to her about things he said or did, he keeps having dreams that they were together holding hands and had finally made peace. He says needs that confrontation to stop the dreams.
Now since she has blocked him on all platforms, he was thinking of buying a new sim card to call her, I offered my phone. He called her in front of me three times before she picked she didnt say word, heard his voice and hung up on him. He said it would help him let her go even if he got to have small conversation, but since she didnt say anything he wants to stay persistent. I feel bad for him, but this situation also makes me uncomfortable. He is a sweetheart and very kind.
TL;DR Now idk what to do with this, we love each other but its becoming difficult for me stay with him through all this when he has emotional baggage.