AITA for dying my hair blonde behind my parents back?
Okay so for context I 13(M) have always had brown hair. I really hated it but whatever. And I snuck out the other night, shockingly didnt get caught, to go dye my hair with a friend. I knew I was going to get in trouble but, when I woke up the next day and my parents saw it and got REALLY angry. So more context, I have a six flags trip coming up for Choir. It was 100$ no returns possible. They decided to not let me go. The date is 5/16/26, the day of the trip is 5/28/26. My parents are really making it fucking impossible to deal with it. All I wanted was to dye my hair because I'd been feeling very insecure about it and decided to fuck it. I did it once before with Hydrogen Peroxide (made my hair ginger) but they were less angry. I see what I did wrong, but I feel as though it was very extreme. I'm going to try and beg and everything but chances are, if I want to go, I'll never be allowed on a feild trip in 9th grade. They also took away my phone because AND I QUOTE "We're going to start controlling EVERYTHING about you. EVERYTHING, you can keep your shitty ass hair i really dont care, but give me your phone, which you wont get back till your hair goes to it's natural color again!". Ifcourse though, they were shouting and screaming bc theyre just like that.
So aita?
Also, I get I broke their trust but I feel like its just hair. In addition, any tips on sneaking to the trip? (from 9am, to 9pm)?