Vent
About 6 months divorced, came out of the blue (for me at least) and accompanied by the emotional infidelity with a friend (who also ended his marriage at the same time). Out of respect to her and her family and our daughter, I went along with the storyline of this was just the best for us and it was a mutual agreement. Hate myself for allowing that to happen, maybe I thought going with it would allow things to repair between us. Saw today she is at a new gym and this man is also now attending. Angry they get to escape as if nothing happened. Yea I missed my opportunity to come clean without it being vengeful, but still sucks to see them escape without accountability. Worse is that in time they will start to believe that they didn’t do anything wrong in the first place. Trying to not care, things are going well all things considered and I feel I’m getting my life back together and even better than before (is it possible?!) but still just irritating to see them move forward as if it never happened. Really minimizes the damage and pain the whole ordeal caused.