u/Educational_Cow8945

I’m 26M and i have noticed people want the guy to have a home of his own to get their daughter married to him.

I’m concerned about this and i started saving aggressively to ensure i have enough money to buy a good enough flat (i will have to take a loan for 50% of the flat’s cost - if the flat ends up around 2cr)

Now my bigger concern is should i buy a flat beforehand marriage or should i buy one after i find a girl and ensure she likes it as well? (Hopefully get some help from her for finances)

Also, my female friends keep telling me that they wouldn’t really help the guy in finances and that’s the guy’s job.