Need Advice about how things work in relationships from a perspective of women ?
So I’m 22M and she’s 22F. We’ve been in a long-distance relationship for about a year now, and honestly everything has been going really well. We have a great understanding between each other, communicate well, and we genuinely hope to marry each other one day.
Lately though, for the past few weeks, I’ve noticed her acting a little different. I trust her completely, and I really mean that. I might just be overthinking, which is why I wanted some outside opinions instead of jumping to conclusions.
One thing I’ve noticed is that her clothing style has become more revealing than before. Before anyone misunderstands me, I completely respect that it’s her body and her choice, and I would never want to control what she wears or put restrictions on her. I also don’t think girls should be judged based on how they dress.
I think what’s confusing me is more about how I’m feeling internally. Part of me wonders if I should even be concerned at all, or if this is just insecurity and overthinking on my side. My only thought was that sometimes people can get the wrong impression, but at the same time I know that’s not her responsibility.
I want to talk to her about how I’m feeling, but I’m scared it might come across the wrong way or make her feel judged, which is the last thing I want. I care about her a lot and respect her completely.
So I just wanted some honest advice from people who may have been in similar situations. Am I overthinking this? Is this something normal in relationships, especially LDRs? And if I do bring it up, how can I do it in a respectful and mature way without sounding controlling?
Please don’t hate on me for asking. I’m genuinely trying to understand my feelings better, not offend anyone.
FYI :- Used AI to rephrase it.