u/Educational_Poetry17

Hi everyone, I'm 24 male. I'm financially unstable but I do have some hope of one day being financially secure so that I can get married, have my own family, and my own kids. But with the way the justice system works in America, I'm having a hard time of convincing myself to get married. Can anyone who have been married please tell me what the pros are to be married in this economy and in this country?? Every self discussion just makes me thinks that marriage is a scam and nothing else. I want to get married and grow old together like some other couples that I saw, (not my parents, they're divorced). I appreciate it if you guys can help me out.