24F found out my boyfriend was cheating because of a food delivery notification and i still feel sick thinking about it
I genuinely think the worst part about getting cheated on is how normal the person acts before you find out
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. We live in Bangalore, not together but close enough that we see each other almost every day
Till literally yesterday I would’ve defended this man in front of anyone
Anyway, last night he was at my flat. We ordered food, watched a movie, everything completely normal
At one point he went to shower and left his phone on the bed. I was not checking his phone. I know everyone says that after getting caught snooping but genuinely I wasn’t
Then a Swiggy notification popped up on his lockscreen saying
“Your order from Milano Pizzeria has arrived”
Which made no sense because we were literally eating at my place
At first I thought maybe it was some old notification but then another one came saying
“Hope you enjoy your order ❤️”
And I just got this horrible feeling instantly
I opened the notification and it showed the delivery address
It was not his place
Not even close
I wish I stopped there honestly but I didn’t
I checked his messages and yeah. Full relationship with another girl. Not hookup type cheating. Actual relationship relationship
Calling her baby
sending her good morning paragraphs
telling HER he wants to marry her someday
The funniest part is he used to send me the exact same paragraphs. Same wording and everything. Bro was apparently running copy paste operations
I literally felt my body go cold reading it
And the craziest thing is 15 minutes before this man was sitting in my kitchen feeding me fries and asking where we should travel next month
Like HOW do people switch personalities that fast
When he came out of the shower I just looked at him and asked
who’s Ananya
I have never seen someone lose colour in their face that quickly
First he tried lying
then he said it “just happened”
then he started crying saying he was confused and didn’t know how to end either relationship
EITHER relationship
That line actually broke something in me honestly
Imagine finding out you’re part of a triangle you never agreed o be in
I told him to leave and since then he’s been calling nonstop from different numbers because I blocked him everywhere
The other girl still has no idea btw
And now I’m sitting here wondering if I should tell her or just disappear from this entire mess
Because if I was her I would want to know
But I also genuinely don’t have the energy for more drama
People who’ve been cheated on before
did telling the other person actually help or did it just make things worse