Caught second time, first time was a dating profile on a website
So I wanted to ask how the responses are usually for catching someone second time?
Together for 4 and a half years
First time was a dating profile, but I let it go because we were having a rough patch and that was the excuse that he used. I was dealing with bad postpartum. He said that we were possibly breaking up, and decided to open a profile just in case. I believed and I let it go.
For some reason, there was a very obvious lack of affection, very critical and moody outlook, lack of sex, complaining about dirty home when he used to help out. So I snooped. He had a screenshotted Tex message of a girl, that was from school, and he was sending her dick pics of himself and they were very explicit with each other. I took a screenshot of that and I took a screenshot of all the dick pics that he sent, and they all match within 3 to 5 minutes between each other. Obviously he was sending them to her.
I confronted him and he said, “oh you went through my stuff again”. Denied that he sent them. Said the screenshot was from last year but doesn’t remember it. It was clearly his dick and his verbiage. He used to sext me the same way. When asked why, avoids the answer completely.
The first time he was caught cheating, he was actually very remorseful, admitted it and took responsibility. This time he refuses and says he did not cheat. There is a clear date and time stamp between the dick pics and the saved texts.
I’ve been ignoring him and I’ve been keeping my distance, but we have a kid together and I’m just like very upset about it I don’t know what to do.