AITA - Been together 15 years but yet no wedding in sight. I’m grieving the bride I always wanted to be
So we got together in 2012. Had a child in 2014 and 2019. Had a civil ceremony with just our kids and my parent in 2020. Never had money to have a wedding but he proposed to me like 3 times, why even do that even your not passionate about a wedding - I found that so strange, almost like a hook and bait. Anyways I kept saying I want a wedding but he always pretended he wanted one too. I have done so much for him and his life has changed dramatically because of my love and support… anyways, 15 years has gone by and I’m grieving the marriage and wedding day that I always thought of since I was little.
He thinks I’m over reacting and for some reason I feel so much pain inside my chest. I stopped my whole life to support his. I feel just pain.. and I don’t know why, I just feel so sad today over it but he’s telling me I’m over reacting and he’s saying he’s shocked but I’ve been telling him for years. Someone help. How can I get over this.