u/Effective_Load378

It seems like there was a wave on June 18, and since then people have barely talked about Northwestern (if any). I checked Xiaohongshu (a Chinese social media platform) and found that someone got off the waitlist on June 25.

Another week has passed and I still haven’t heard anything back. I’m wondering if anybody got off the waitlist this past Friday, and if anyone has any info on where the waitlist stands.

It’d also be helpful if anyone who got off the waitlist can share what they’ve done so far (I’ve already written a loci)

I’m getting really nervous rn 😢

Background: sophomore at UCLA, international/full-pay, Comparative Literature major. Spent the past 2 years working my a** off trying to get out. Applied to roughly the same schools both transfer cycles — Duke, Northwestern, Columbia, Penn, Brown, Stanford, Swarthmore.

The thing with UCLA is there aren’t many schools technically above it, so my realistic options are basically T10s and Ivies, which makes this whole thing brutal. Last year got rejected by almost everyone except Swarthmore, declined it after deliberation, now deeply regret it. Thought my profile had improved enough to make a real case this cycle. So far: rejected by Duke, Stanford, and Columbia — and Columbia actually waitlisted me last year, so it got worse, not better.

Stats:
2025: GPA 3.83, decent essays, LORs of unknown quality
2026: GPA 3.90 (straight A’s after initial apps), stronger essays, very strong LOR

No idea what went wrong.

I know UCLA is a dream school for a lot of people and I’m not trying to be obnoxious about this — but here’s why I care:
Why Columbia specifically:
- Core curriculum
- So many of my closest friends are there
- Incredibly strong East Asian and comparative lit
- Theater access for non-majors (I’m really into theater, Broadway is right there)
- New York

Why UCLA isn’t working for me:
- Standard large public school stuff (and we international students are paying sooo much for this) less resources, you know the drill
- East Asian department is mostly language-acquisition focused
- Basically zero theater access if you’re not TFT
- Genuinely rough time in LA — health issues from the climate, safety stuff, my place got burglarized

Brown/Northwestern/Penn still pending but those apps weren’t as strong, so I’m not holding my breath. Also this whole thing has dragged in a lot of people — family, teachers, recommenders — and I really feel sorry.

A few questions:
1. For anyone who got stuck somewhere they didn’t want to be, or had a specific school obsession that didn’t pan out — did it actually get better or did you just kind of go numb? How do you let go of something when you’re not sure you should?
2. Is taking a gap year and reapplying as a junior transfer even realistic — and given everything above, what would you actually do if you were me?