Can someone help me to understand my family
For starters, my parents(51) are really good and they support in my career and my love life or I(27M) thought so.
But everything changed when I let them meet my gf, they are very defensive. I feel the vibe that they don't like but they keep saying we want you to be happy.
I have a good job and I did support them like always. But I don't know the moment they see me buying anything for my gf, their face turns down brown. It's fine if I get the same for them or sister. I brought her on a foreign trip just to let her see the world but now she is hell bent saying everything does wrong to me this n that...she doesn't even talk to me straight...she did had trauma before but it's so long she keeps comparing me n everyone that hurted her.
Sometimes I feel they want me to live the life according to them, but I do have a life of my own. In face they say they want me to be happy. But I don't feel so.
Please be kind and respectful, lemme know if I am wrong overthinking or is it normal