GF misplaced money a year ago and can't let it go
Hi all
Not sure if this is the place to go, but I need some advice. My dx girlfriend misplaced an envelope of money around a year ago. It wasn't a small amount by any means, but not a savings account amount either. I'd say it corresponds to half a rent payment.
When she initially couldn't find them, she (understandably) panicked for quite a while and would regularly search for them - to no avail. We've searched everywhere.
Now, a year later, she still occassionally panics about not being able to find them, leading to an hour or so of frustration, anger, and stress. And at this point, I don't know what to do about it. I really want her to find peace about this, and - egotistically - I also want peace from it now.
I want to be supportive. I want to help. But I can't magically make the money appear.
How would you approach this, a year in to the situation?