u/Efficient_Fee425

My girlfriend recently told me she, sometimes, wants to be "fucked like a bitch" (literally her words". Thing is, it is a turn off for her if she feels like she then has to give me instructions or directions on how to. It would take from the feeling,I guess. So....any tips on what she MIGHT be referring to.

PS: I fully understand consent in the bedroom and would not spring something absolutely wild on her without checking in to make sure she is alright.

My wife and I have been together for 5yrs. In that time our sex has been great (if I say so myself) but that was because we were freer and staying together. Now, we live miles apart, have extremely tiresome jobs and only see each other one day a week due to scheduling.

Recently exhaustion has gotten the better of us and our sex has started going downhill. She loves the feeling of head but fears it because of infections. (That’s kind of off the table) … nudes are also out of the picture for both of us due to extreme paranoia.

What else can we do? Foreplay feels predictable and exhaustion is a constant.