u/Efficient_Flower4981

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Aio about my boyfriends mom

For this post the ages are gonna be changed and so are the names.
I (20f ) have been with my boyfriend (20m) for almost 3 years. It started off great and happy and loving but then things changed. He started getting mad easily and has even broken my trust. I looked passed it though because I love him. So on to what this post is about. My boyfriend’s mom let’s call her Sara has always been apart of the relationship and at first I didn’t mind then he started talking about things a son should not say about his mom. Me and her got along for the most part after that happened until she started calling me controlling and a bitch. I have had so much patience with her and my boyfriend but she’s constantly getting in the middle between us and he won’t set boundaries with her about it because she will get upset with him. I have told him we are both grown adults and she shouldn’t be in the middle and walking all over him she constantly asks for his phone because she loses hers. I didn’t care at first till she started going into his room when he’s asleep and hangs up on me I have tried to talk to him about it but he will get mad and start yelling at me about it to the point we almost broke up. He won’t set boundaries with her at all and won’t tell her no he does anything she says and will even drop me if I’m upset and crying to go help his mom with moving stuff or hang up on me if I mention anything to do with mine and his relationship and her basically being a part of it am I over reacting or is this normal

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