35F in a 5-Year Toxic, One-Sided Relationship with 37M — Struggling to Find Clarity and Move Forward
Hi everyone, I’ve been with my partner for 6 years, but recently I’ve realized that it’s become a deeply toxic and one-sided relationship. He’s controlling, refuses to accept his mistakes, and can’t even bring himself to say sorry when he’s wrong. It’s incredibly draining, and I often feel trapped and overwhelmed.
I love him, but I also know I deserve respect, kindness, and genuine partnership. I’m struggling to find the strength to either change things or leave, and I feel so confused about what’s best for me.
How do I start to rebuild my self-esteem and figure out whether I should stay or go in a situation this toxic? What are the first steps I can take to prioritize my well-being?
Thank you so much for reading. I really appreciate any guidance or support.