AITA for not giving my grandpa a ride to the dealership?
I live 30 mins from my mom and grandpa. They moved here to this state for me, bc I moved here for my aunt who fked me out of 69 thousands dollars. So they came here in their rvs and stay nearby (why? Idrk. They dont help with childcare often and dont visit me 😅 but we do get together for holidays!)
Anyways we all text still.
My GPA needed to take his new truck to the dmv and get it fixed, but he needed me to pick him up. My mom does not have a car. So my fiance drove his car that he sold today after work- to work, i took my car to pick him up and take him home from the dealership. We hangout at my gpa and moms Rv for a bit. Well his car wasnt gonna be done til 4pm, so I head home for my 17m olds nap around 1pm. And they (mom and gpa) text me saying the truck wont be done til tomorrow. Well my fiance sold his car today after work- I told them that when I was over there visiting after dropping GPA off that my fiance sold his car today after work. Nobody said anything or connected dots ig? But my fiance works tmrw and needs to take MY car (bc hes in the process of buying his own.) They want me to wake my ONE YEAR OLD UP THREE HOURS early to take him to work and pick him up (at 630...we would get home by 650...bedtime is 730). So my GPA can get his truck tmrw.
My GPA filled my tank up for me, didnt ask but he did. And I said thanks. And he got me lunch. I got $10 worth of food to split with my toddler.
I am broke, im a sahm. My fiance handles all bills and we unfortunately had to pay property taxes and it was more than we expected (1st year here.)
So we r broke.
So I did appreciate it!
Well I tell them im not willing to disrupt my kids sleep by 3 hours. Like. That leaves her napping at the same time she wakes up normally. And she doesn't take a 2nd nap- like she refuses.
My mom is saying im not flexible. Its not my kid and im using it as an excuse. And that shes nit proud of me right now and im embarrassing her. I sent him $12 back for gas Which is all I had. They said it was offensive and i explained its all. I. Have. Im broke. We have to get another car, property tax, im pregnant, bills are about due so we cant spend what we do have bc BILLS TO LIVE. Like. Im feeling hurt that they dont understand where im coming from.
His car was supposed to be done same day- I didn't plan for this. And now they want me to wreck my kids sleep schedule for a day (which will lead to her waking up early the next day- Thursday too) am I wrong? Is it me? Am I being selfish? Would you wake your kid 3 hours early? I dont grt why he needs his truck immediately- hes retired and my mom has a WFH job and they live 10 feet away from a DG. I offered to have my fiance take him Thursday bc he gets off at 3pm that day and they both declined. I have been blocked from everything on my moms end since this occurred.
She told me I was a disappointment, and embarrassing her. AITA??