u/EkstraOst

My local bdsm-club is looking more and more like a core group of shibari/impact-doms who seems to want to ‘try’ every new sub, while every new Dom is left outside the in-group, feeling isolated.

There are some characters who more than once have overstepped boundaries in front of witnesses during an official party. When complaints are filed, conclusion is literally ‘witnesses could not be found - advice you to just talk it out with the unsafe dude’.

Is there anything to do with this?
I realize this is a very open question, but I’m at a loss.