

I don't know what to do with my hair, and I don't know what to tell the hairdresser
Hello everyone,
I’m looking for advice on what to do with my hair as it’s getting thinner on top with age, while the sides stay much denser. I'd like to keep some lenght because it suits me better, and shorter hair makes my ears look big. When I put a cap on, I like that it's a bit messy (picture 2) getting out of all sides.
My problems is that I’m honestly very bad at communicating what I want to hairdressers. I get anxious and try to be extremely precise with very few words, which makes it even harder to understand. I can often feel the hairdresser getting confused or hesitant, like my anxiety is contagious.
So if you can help me with :
- haircut suggestions
- examples of cuts that could work with thinning hair while keeping medium length
- Bonus : advice on what I should specifically ask a hairdresser.
Sorry for the low quality on the second picture, I don't take much pics.
Please don't say "just shave it". Thanks you in advance.