Found my wife's private snap chat account three years later.
3 years ago I was scrolling through my wife's camera roll and stumbled across nudes and videos that I've never seen before. I also caught her responding to messages from the flood of men that followed her mostly the usual simp comments . I couldn't find any proof that she was sending them but we got into a fight she swore she never messaged anybody back but I always had a suspicion in the back of my mind. Fast forward 3 years later I end up stumbling across and accidental screenshot right before she was going to send a video of herself to another guy. After a tense couple of days I told her the only way I would stay is if I get even by having an affair my self and she agreed and is in the overly apologetic state right now that I'm Noah is going to end and it will be back to me doing everything even though she stays at home doesn't work. I've never been the kind of guy to do something like that but it's pushed me there. What would anybody else do in this situation should I go through or end it all and just spare myself the toxicity because that's ultimately not what I'm about.