u/Electrarine

recently i made a joke towards a friend of mine who later had to tell me in private that it really upset them and triggered an insecurity of theirs, which (ironically enough) triggered my NPD and now i feel terrible for making a careless mistake

i figured the people here would understand this pain, but does anyone have advice on how to deal with it? i can tell im gonna be beating myself up over this for a while and i want to remedy it as soon as possible