Met a married guy online, spent the afternoon with him at a theme park, then went back to his hotel.
I (F46) used to hang around AOL chat rooms in college. I enjoyed it because you could find people to talk about pretty much anything. There were also lots of pervs, sometimes I talked with them because it gave me a laugh and sometimes because I was horny and that’s what fit the bill that night. I got lots of offers to meet in person but never did for obvious reasons.
There was one guy I clicked with and we chatted for months. We chatted about various topics but conversations usually turned into cybersex. He was a lot older than me and married, but at the time I was OK with it.
One day he told me he was coming to my city with his family on a vacation and wanted to meet me. We agreed to meet at a local theme park (which I figured would be safe) on a day when his wife was going to visit her sister with their son.
After meeting and walking around and chatting a while we decided to go on a ride. It was dark and his hand went on my leg. I lost control of myself a little and kissed him. We spent a few hours finding secluded places to touch and kiss.
He asked me if I wanted to go back to his hotel room and I agreed. He had two adjoining hotel rooms, one for him and his wife and one for his son. We went in his son’s room. It didn’t go well. Until we got to the room I had been raring to go but as soon as we stepped into the room it felt wrong. He was nervous and the whole thing was kind of awkward. We never spoke again after that day.
I’ve thought a lot about it over the years and if I’m being totally honest I’m really conflicted. Meeting him at the theme park and the stuff we did was super thrilling and excites me to this day when I think back on it. But going to the hotel was a mistake for a bunch of reasons. I always hoped the reason I never heard from him again was that he felt guilty and went back to his wife.