u/Electrical-Can-893

How can my gf claim to be straight?

Basic question, me and my gilfriend moved in together a few months ago, after seeing eachother for abut two years.

We both left heterosexual marriages, and I could accept to call myself and her bi, though I’d prefer the “late bloomer lesbian”-label. but she maintains that she is straight and “happens to be in a relationship with a woman”.

I’ve known a few women through the years who said something similar, and to be fair they usually only had heterosexual relationships before and after, apart from that one. But still, what is this, if you are straight you would be expected to have 0 same sex relationships - I could accept a short fling or a one night stand at the most.

It’s starting to piss me off when I hear her tell her / our friends and her and my family that she is straight. Like what am I to her, then? A pastime?

Anyone else heard this, what can I do? Will she inevitably dump me for a man?

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u/Electrical-Can-893 — 3 days ago