Has anyone else noticed that fit guys rarely get approached?
I've been wondering if this is actually a thing or if I'm just overthinking it.
I'm 5'11", lean with defined abs, and I've been lifting consistently for a while. I've always heard that getting in great shape would naturally mean more women would approach you or show obvious interest.
But that honestly hasn't been my experience.
Sometimes I even wonder if having a more athletic physique makes you seem less approachable as if people assume you're already taken, too into yourself, or simply out of their league.
So I wanted to ask the women here:
Is there any truth to that? Do you find lean, athletic guys with a defined physique less approachable than an average looking guy? If you've ever wanted to approach a guy, what made you go through with it or what stopped you?
I'd love to hear some honest perspectives because I'm genuinely curious whether this is a real phenomenon or just something I've made up in my head.