Intrusive and annoying decision regrets 2 weeks out while PMSing, lol
Our wedding is June 13- so soon! I have been in this wonderful, calm, blissed out state this whole final month. My fiance and I’s relationship has never felt so sweet and our communication has never felt so solid, we did sooo many DIY projects that I am SO proud of, there are so many little surprise moments during the wedding that I can’t wait to see people’s reactions to (hand written letters, a montage of childhood videos with my dad for the father/daughter dance, etc). I am so excited and have so much gratitude in my heart
BUT…. Tell me why every month during my PMS week, I experience like TORTUROUS venue regret???? Like I am talking feeling like I am physically in pain over all the little things I don’t really like about our venue and it feels so stupid to feel this way because there’s literally nothing that can be done about it! We chose our venue because it is a full lodge buyout for the whole weekend, all our wedding party gets to stay together in a cute lodge in the forest. Out of our top 3 venues it’s not the most elegant or gorgeous from every angle-the dancing is literally out front in the parking lot which I am cringing at but….we chose it for the experience of an Airbnb type wedding. All this to say-I keep envisioning the wedding day at one of the other venues and start feeling so much ick. This has been happening about once a month since booking a year ago.
I just needed to vent, to hopefully commiserate with other brides that OMFG I can’t wait to be free from overthinking all these expensive ass decisions that make me feel like a crazy person, and somebody tell my brain to stfu and just fully embrace the wedding that is!!!!
Anyone have any tips for irrational intrusive decision regret this close to the wedding day???