i need advice
i just bought my first strap on for me and my partners. I (AFAB) am young and dont have much sexual experience. the strap i bought didnt have exact measurements but i look at the reviews and i would say its pretty average sized. im worried that when my partner uses it on me it will hurt or wont fit. im 99% sure ive broken my hymen as i have used tampons in the past with no issues and ive been fingered by my partner one time. i also have a small vibrator (3.5 inches in length and 3 inches at its thickest point) that i can fit with minimal discomfort. thats probobly the biggest thing ive had in there tho. what should i do to make it more comfortable and be able to fit something larger? help me out.