Help!
I (27F) started seeing someone (43m) I suspected something was up after he kind of started needing to rearrange our dates during only very specific times and he suddenly wouldn’t let me pick places anymore. I suspected that maybe he was seeing multiple people but then I worried maybe he was married so I looked up his name in the states court records site and there it was his marriage certificate. I’m truly at a loss for what to do. I want to let their wife know but I also don’t want to be blamed or have them get angry with me and blast me on social media or anything. I have stopped answering his texts as I am not really sure if I should tell him that I found this out or not. We also have a larger age gap than I was led to believe as his marriage certificate has him as being currently 49 not 43. (I didn’t realize this age gap because honestly he looks like he would be in his 30s). I’m not sure what to do or where to start.