I shouldn’t have gotten married
I think I messed up… Last year I got married to my now wife. I’m 32 she 35. When we got married I was transitioning into career of Martine & being away from home and she was in her PHD program with a few more years left .
We got married after knowing each other after 6 months… we had a great connection from the start. I proposed to her and married her that same year. She was on the fence about having children and I’ve always wanted them. I guess I thought she would become more clear as we got married and build our life together.
Fast forward…
Now I’ve no longer working in marine time career and Preparing to serve in the Military ( for education benefits ). Without my student loans ect.
She doesn’t want to live that life and also still on the fence about having children.
She seems sad often and tells me that she feels like I lied to her about what I wanted… in a nutshell I need some advice if I made a mistake on getting married.
I love her and don’t want another woman AT ALL! she just doesn’t seem happy with life! And I don’t want to keep going on if there are going to be regrets.