u/EmbalmMePlz

I'll go first! I work in funeral services, and when I first started, one prep-room task that somehow kept getting assigned to me was packing the anal orifices of the deceased after preparation.

There were other people in the same role as me, so eventually I asked my supervisors why I was always the one doing it. One of them laughed and said:

"We figured you'd probably find the anus the quickest."

Everyone laughed it off as a joke, and at the time I awkwardly laughed too, but looking back it honestly bothered me. It felt like one of those moments where your sexuality suddenly became your workplace identity

I'm curious to see what other gay bros have potentially dealt with at work where your sexuality impacted your role or how you're seen.