So I just recently got out of a relationship that was almost to a month, we started dating on april 8th, And he broke up with me because he’s getting more full time hours at work and was just now notified that they were gonna give him some training classes for EMS. He told me he was stressing about it for the past couple of days like the day he broke up with me but we were acting so good with each other the day before. We even said our first “I love you” to each other in person like 2 days before it all happened. It hurts because he said he wasn’t gonna start his classes in 1-2 months and he said he wouldnt have the time for me and he doesnt think he would be able to balance all that and also be a good boyfriend to me, but I explained how I was ok with not talking all the time but he wasnt ok with it. He even apologized for being selfish about the whole situation and told me I deserved the world but which ALSO hurts me is how he doesnt want to talk again after he gets his certificate for EMS because he was saying that it wouldnt be the same but why is he the one to determine that or decide that for us? He doesnt want me to contact him at all and im trying to respect his decision but I miss him so bad and I so deeply wish he will come back to me after all he has to do even if he doesnt want to do that now. He treated me the way ive always wanted to be treated and was so gentle and sweet with me which is something i never had with anyone and its killing me so fucking bad. Any advice?
u/Embarrassed-Author53
So I just recently got out of a relationship that was almost to a month, we started dating on april 8th, And he broke up with me because he’s getting more full time hours at work and was just now notified that they were gonna give him some training classes for EMS. He told me he was stressing about it for the past couple of days like the day he broke up with me but we were acting so good with each other the day before. We even said our first “I love you” to each other in person like 2 days before it all happened. It hurts because he said he wasn’t gonna start his classes in 1-2 months and he said he wouldnt have the time for me and he doesnt think he would be able to balance all that and also be a good boyfriend to me, but I explained how I was ok with not talking all the time but he wasnt ok with it. He even apologized for being selfish about the whole situation and told me I deserved the world but which ALSO hurts me is how he doesnt want to talk again after he gets his certificate for EMS because he was saying that it wouldnt be the same but why is he the one to determine that or decide that for us? He doesnt want me to contact him at all and im trying to respect his decision but I miss him so bad and I so deeply wish he will come back to me after all he has to do even if he doesnt want to do that now. He treated me the way ive always wanted to be treated and was so gentle and sweet with me which is something i never had with anyone and its killing me so fucking bad. Any advice?