Modern XC bikes are too stiff... what are my options?
I'm looking for recommendations for a comfortable XC bike.
At the moment I'm riding a 6-year Orbea Oiz with a 100 mm Fox suspension setup. It's been a great bike, but it's getting old and is starting to need a lot of replacement parts.
One of my biggest issues is wrist pain, so I'm looking for a bike that is lightweight but, above all, comfortable, the complete opposite of a race-focused XC bike.
I've recently demoed a few modern XC bikes, and my main complaint is that they all feel too stiff. I'm not sure how to describe it, but the combination of 34 mm forks, heavily reinforced frames, and integrated one-piece cockpits seems to transmit every little vibration straight into the handlebars. That's exactly what I'm trying to avoid.
Ironically, I actually find my current bike, with its Fox 32 fork and relatively slim carbon frame more comfortable than most of the latest XC bikes.
I'm not interested in riding aggressive technical trails or bombing downhill sections. I spend most of my time on forest roads and smoother XC terrain.
I've read that the new Orbea Oiz has a very aggressive, race-oriented geometry and handling, which is probably not what I'm after.
Another requirement is that I'd like both the fork and rear shock to be Fox. In my experience, Fox suspension has a noticeably smoother, more supple feel than RockShox.
I do ride a lot of gravel roads, but I'm not interested in a gravel bike. Without front suspension they feel too harsh and fatiguing over long rides, especially with my wrist issues. On the other hand, many of today's XC bikes seem to be designed with World Cup-level descending in mind. It feels like there's no middle ground anymore, and the number of genuinely comfort-oriented XC bikes has become very small.
So my question is: what bike would you recommend me?
I've been putting off buying a new bike because, honestly, I haven't found anything on the market that seems to fit what I'm looking for.
Thanks!