Need honest opinions on Parul University for BCA.
My main priorities are:
Other options I’m considering are JECRC University Jaipur and MUJ.
Would Parul be a decent backup option or should I avoid it?
Need honest opinions on Parul University for BCA.
My main priorities are:
Other options I’m considering are JECRC University Jaipur and MUJ.
Would Parul be a decent backup option or should I avoid it?
from all the posts i've seen it doesn't seem like it has good placements but i plan to prepare for nimcet and do mca from a better college, so i'm only looking for a low cost college which has good hostel/campus life, or is there a better option for me in this case?
It's my first post here and I'm not aware of this subreddit's rules and legal terms... All of this lore is from my mom and to me all of it isn't clear..... so it might turn out to be a long one.... sorry
I (19M) live in rajasthan and my parents have been wanting to rebuild our house since the last yr and the biggest obstacles are literally my dadu(grandfather) and dadi(grandmother).
My grandparents always liked my chacha (father's littler brother) more than my father bcz he was better at studies so dadu always listens to everything chacha says and they both always kept trying to bring my father down even though my father was the one who brought our family out from the drains when they were poor as fuck.
My father started his wholesale business when he was 16 and he was the one who did the hard work while dadu used to do the accounts. It is bcz of his ideas and his mindset which brought food to the family, and he was the one who even funded chacha's education for god's sake. Before we started living in this house, we used to live in a different house which was sold for 30 lakhs and was completely under dadu's name, from that 30L, dadu gave 10L to chacha since he was going away for his job i guess, kept 10L for himself and used the rest to buy our current house which cost us 65L back in 2012 and out of the 65L my father gave the remaining 55L and btw he obv didn't get any money the previous house....
Now since my father isn't well educated, my dadu went ahead and issued the documents of this in his name, my father's name and i think even my chacha has some share in this house even though he doesn't even live with us now, but the thing is in this house's documents there is nothing written which states that when chacha will be gone, he will lose his share or when dadu will be gone then my father will be the one who gets the house under his name... Nope nothing like that.... Dadu played with documents however he wanted.
Now.... Whenever dadu and chacha talk on the phone, dadu shares all the info about what is happening in the family, how much father is earning, what i am doing etc etc and chacha also shares some info but he tells him to keep it a secret. We heard all these secretly through dadu's phone recordings, and we were shocked when we heard the types of things they say about my father and my mother on these calls.... I don't even know what to say about those.
Dadu always put my father down and disrespected him even though my father always completed all his wishes instantly and yet... Whenever my father makes some decisions like buying a car or buying me a laptop etc... with his own money ofc, dadu literally starts ignoring us after we tell him our decisions... LITERALLY EVEN FOR A LAPTOP he even ignored me for a few weeks. My dadi is the exact same in this manner. So obviously dadu wants to be the one who will make ALL the decisions regarding how the house will look like.
Father wants to build 2 floors and make a good looking house since this is a big project and he wants it to be perfect, while dadu wants it to be a single floor house and says that we will have 4 rooms, kitchen, hall, storeroom everything in that single floor.... Btw the plot is literally 40×60 m²
Father is tensed because if he does take the big step and puts his money into this project which would ezily cost 1 cr+ then my dadu will give some of that share to chacha or whatever shit he did with documents in the past to basically give more money to chacha and chacha will accept all of it openly as the greedy asshole he is
Also building a house is something which needs the support of the entire family bcz we obviously can't leave everything to the "thekedaar" (idk the english word for it) and we'll need to oversee the rebuilding of this house which my grandparents are never going to do cz of the pieces of shit they are... And then all the fights that may happene during the building like - that will not go there it should be there blah blah blah and my father can't take it since he is literally so exhausted from his business alone he goes to work at 11 am and comes back at 9 pm
Dadi and dadu always treated my father and mother unfairly. Dadi is one of the worst humans I've ever seen as well.... But that topic won't contribute much to this post....
With all this going on I'm even more pressured mentally that i NEED to become successful and get my father out of the hellhole that my grandparents and chacha created